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Many Outraged by Breast-Feeding Magazine Cover
AOL News ^ | 07/27/06 18:23 EDT | By JOCELYN NOVECK, AP

Posted on 07/29/2006 8:31:37 AM PDT by HairOfTheDog

NEW YORK (July 27) - "I was SHOCKED to see a giant breast on the cover of your magazine," one person wrote. "I immediately turned the magazine face down," wrote another. "Gross," said a third.

These readers weren't complaining about a sexually explicit cover, but rather one of a baby nursing, on a wholesome parenting magazine - yet another sign that Americans are squeamish over the sight of a nursing breast, even as breast-feeding itself gains more support from the government and medical community.

Babytalk is a free magazine whose readership is overwhelmingly mothers of babies. Yet in a poll of more than 4,000 readers, a quarter of responses to the cover were negative, calling the photo - a baby and part of a woman's breast, in profile - inappropriate.

One mother who didn't like the cover explains she was concerned about her 13-year-old son seeing it.

"I shredded it," said Gayle Ash, of Belton, Texas, in a telephone interview. "A breast is a breast - it's a sexual thing. He didn't need to see that."

It's the same reason that Ash, 41, who nursed all three of her children, is cautious about breast-feeding in public - a subject of enormous debate among women, which has even spawned a new term: "lactivists," meaning those who advocate for a woman's right to nurse wherever she needs to.

"I'm totally supportive of it - I just don't like the flashing," she says. "I don't want my son or husband to accidentally see a breast they didn't want to see."

Another mother, Kelly Wheatley, wrote Babytalk to applaud the cover, precisely because, she says, it helps educate people that breasts are more than sex objects. And yet Wheatley, 40, who's still nursing her 3-year-old daughter, rarely breast-feeds in public, partly because it's more comfortable in the car, and partly because her husband is uncomfortable with other men seeing her breast.

"Men are very visual," says Wheatley, 40, of Amarillo, Texas. "When they see a woman's breast, they see a breast - regardless of what it's being used for."

Babytalk editor Susan Kane says the mixed response to the cover clearly echoes the larger debate over breast-feeding in public. "There's a huge Puritanical streak in Americans," she says, "and there's a squeamishness about seeing a body part - even part of a body part."

"It's not like women are whipping them out with tassels on them!" she adds. "Mostly, they are trying to be discreet."

Kane says that since the August issue came out last week, the magazine has received more than 700 letters - more than for any article in years.

"Gross, I am sick of seeing a baby attached to a boob," wrote Lauren, a mother of a 4-month-old.

The evidence of public discomfort isn't just anecdotal. In a survey published in 2004 by the American Dietetic Association, less than half - 43 percent - of 3,719 respondents said women should have the right to breast-feed in public places.

The debate rages at a time when the celebrity-mom phenomenon has made breast-feeding perhaps more public than ever. Gwyneth Paltrow, Brooke Shields, Kate Hudson and Kate Beckinsale are only a few of the stars who've talked openly about their nursing experiences.

The celeb factor has even brought a measure of chic to that unsexiest of garments: the nursing bra. Gwen Stefani can be seen on babyrazzi.com - a site with a self-explanatory name - sporting a leopard-print version from lingerie line Agent Provocateur. And fellow moms recognized a white one under Angelina Jolie's tank top on the cover of People. (Katie Holmes, meanwhile, suffered a maternity wardrobe malfunction when cameras caught her, nursing bra open and peeking out of her shirt, while on the town with fiance Tom Cruise.)

More seriously, the social and medical debate has intensified. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services recently concluded a two-year breast-feeding awareness campaign including a TV ad - criticized as over-the-top even by some breast-feeding advocates - in which NOT breast-feeding was equated with the recklessness of a pregnant woman riding a mechanical bull.

There have been other measures to promote breast-feeding: in December, for example, Massachusetts banned hospitals from giving new mothers gift bags with free infant formula, a practice opponents said swayed some women away from nursing.

Most states now have laws guaranteeing the right to breast-feed where one chooses, and when a store or restaurant employee denies a woman that right, it has often resulted in public protests known as "nurse-ins": at a Starbucks in Miami, at Victoria's Secret stores in Racine, Wis., and Boston, and, last year, outside ABC headquarters in New York, when Barbara Walters made comments on "The View" seen by some women to denigrate breast-feeding in public.

"It's a new age," says Melinda Johnson, a registered dietitian and spokesperson for ADA. "With the government really getting behind breast-feeding, it's been a jumping-off point for mothers to be politically active. Mommies are organizing. It's a new trend to be a mommy activist."

Ultimately, it seems to be a highly personal matter. Caly Wood says she's "all for breast-feeding in public." She recalls with a shudder the time she sat nursing in a restaurant booth, and another woman walked by, glanced over and said, "Ugh, gross."

"My kid needed to eat," says the 29-year-old from South Abingdon, Mass. And she wasn't going to go hide in a not-so-clean restroom: "I don't send people to the bathroom when THEY want to eat," she says.

But Rebekah Kreutz thinks differently. One of six women who author SisterhoodSix, a blog on mothering issues, Kreutz didn't nurse her two daughters in public, and doesn't really feel comfortable seeing others do it.

"I respect it and think women have the right," says Kreutz, 34, of Bozeman, Mont. "But personally, it makes me really uncomfortable."

"I just think it's one of those moments that should stay between a mother and her child."

07/27/06 18:23 EDT

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KEYWORDS: breastfeeding; lookatmyboobs
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To: MHGinTN; Lazamataz

You did a great job of describing his particular genius.


61 posted on 07/29/2006 11:34:10 AM PDT by Tax-chick (I've always wanted to be 40 ... and it's as good as I anticipated!)
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To: Tax-chick

My genius is that somehow I've avoided the authorities for so long. :^)


62 posted on 07/29/2006 11:37:51 AM PDT by Lazamataz (Islam is a perversion of faith, a lie against human spirit, an obscenity shouted in the face of G_d)
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To: Lazamataz

I'll refrain from describing that one ...


63 posted on 07/29/2006 12:02:09 PM PDT by MHGinTN (If you can read this, you've had life support from someone. Promote life support for others.)
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To: Lazamataz

Some guys got it ...


64 posted on 07/29/2006 12:21:50 PM PDT by Tax-chick (I've always wanted to be 40 ... and it's as good as I anticipated!)
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To: HairOfTheDog

Actually, that is kind of gross.

In the first one, it's actually being USED.


65 posted on 07/29/2006 3:58:34 PM PDT by pcottraux (It's pronounced "P. Coe-troe.")
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To: pcottraux

~blinks~ Well... yeah!


66 posted on 07/29/2006 4:01:11 PM PDT by HairOfTheDog (Head On. Apply directly to the forehead!)
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To: HairOfTheDog

Good Lord, Hair, not again.

I'm familiar with that magazine, they are placed in Ob/gyn offices for the new mothers to take. I've never seen it anywhere else.


67 posted on 07/29/2006 5:45:20 PM PDT by tuffydoodle (Shut up voices, or I'll poke you with a Q-Tip again.)
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To: HairOfTheDog

I think its sweet. I breastfed my son, thank G-d no one took a picture of us though.


68 posted on 07/29/2006 5:47:47 PM PDT by brwnsuga (Black, Proud, Conservative!)
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To: Lazamataz
Yes, I can well imagine you bursting into tears when there ISN'T a giant breast on the cover of your magazine.

Someday we'll all come over and check out your library.

69 posted on 07/29/2006 10:52:18 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Don't you wish there were a knob on the computer to turn up the intelligence?)
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To: All

We have as a society gone overboard when we find distaste in the sight of a mother giving life nourishment to a newborn whether in public or private - as is her choice alone.

If people are going to pass along to their observant children a sense of "wrong" and "being uptight" over breastfeeding, this will start them on the long path of censorship and caution when matters of simple natural childbirth and reproduction become an issue for family discussion. How to stop your child from asking questions?
Act as if this one act is somehow bad and wrong.

Nature is far wiser than we in our prudishness.

I regard breastfeeding as one of the most wonderful sights we have to share with the world.... a woman who has given and is sustaining life to the most fragile of us.


70 posted on 07/30/2006 5:40:51 AM PDT by imintrouble
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To: tet68

Well said.

Especially since, "Grand Tetons", when translated from early American Indian, means "Big Tits."


71 posted on 07/30/2006 11:02:19 AM PDT by CTOCS (Some people drink from the fountain of knowledge. Others just gargle.)
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To: pinz-n-needlez
I guess she's content for them to stick to online porn... lol

Wait a minute. You mean to tell me there is porn online ?when did this happen and were is all this porn your talking about?

After spending all day looking at websites to tell you the best intersections to help little old ladys across the street and how to volunteer at an old folks home i dont have much time to look at any other sites this is the first i heard about porn on the internet are you sure thats not just an urban legend ?

72 posted on 07/30/2006 11:51:52 PM PDT by freepatriot32 (Holding you head high & voting Libertarian is better then holding your nose and voting republican)
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To: dead

73 posted on 07/31/2006 9:05:15 AM PDT by Cobra64 (All we get are lame ideas from Republicans and lame criticism from dems about those lame ideas.)
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To: HairOfTheDog
Funny and not obscene and gross!!!!

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74 posted on 07/31/2006 1:28:37 PM PDT by Candor7 (Into Liberal flatulance goes the best hope of the West, and who wants to be a smart feller?)
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To: HairOfTheDog

"yet another sign that Americans are squeamish over the sight of a nursing breast, even as breast-feeding itself gains more support from the government and medical community."


What's so terrible about that? I mean, people being squeemish, NOT the breast.

You know, it's good to urinate, but that doesn't mean it's perfectly fine to show everyone.

Neither is intercourse in public a good thing.

And spare me the stupid "uptight" comments. Breast-feeding is a great thing, but it's a very private thing. And sorry, guys, but since "guys" are so sexually excited by breasts, the breast IS a sexual instrument, no matter what it's being used for. Just like the male member has a double purpose. So along with the intercourse - keep it covered.


75 posted on 07/31/2006 1:34:17 PM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue.)
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To: the OlLine Rebel

Oh - we had done so good on this thread, very few comparisons between breastfeeding and urination.... then you had to ruin it.


76 posted on 07/31/2006 1:36:39 PM PDT by HairOfTheDog (Head On. Apply directly to the forehead!)
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To: HairOfTheDog
What kind of repressed, frustrated, person sees an infant suckling on a breast as a sexual situation? Especially on a magazine aimed at mothers of young babies?

Reminds me of a Simpson's episode:

Marge answers the door early in the morning. It's Maude and Helen, recruiting Marge to protest with them against David.

Helen: You've got to lead our protest against this abomination!

[shows newspaper article]

Marge: Mm, but that's Michelangelo's David. It's a masterpiece.

Helen: [gasp] It's filth! It graphically portrays parts of the human body, which, practical as they may be, are evil.

Marge: But I like that statue.

Helen: [gasp] I told you she was soft on full frontal nudity! Come on, girls...

The crowd (sans Marge) storm to the airport and tell them to take the statue away. This prompts another `Smartline' episode.

Is it a masterpiece or just some guy with his pants down? That's our topic tonight on Smartline...

-- Kent Brockman, on the coming of Michelangelo's David to Springfield.

77 posted on 08/04/2006 4:19:52 PM PDT by Youngblood
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To: imintrouble

No moreso than the Washington Times.....
http://washingtontimes.com/culture/20060731-112914-4137r.htm

As for breasts being 'Sexual', uptight people look at them as sexual, that's their problem. I guess to become a more 'Godly' society, though, we're going to have to do something about these free thinking womenfolk and thier supposed right to breastfeed. [/sarc]


78 posted on 08/07/2006 12:25:18 PM PDT by BritExPatInFla
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To: BritExPatInFla

Thanks for your remark

We are all different in our view of our world around us - especially as it pertains to continuation of life and how that occurs.

If someone is embarrassed as you say, they deal with it the best way they know how - to be embarrassed - while the child could care less as long as it is nourished - which is the ultimate function of the breast.

If it pleasures the couple in lovemaking - that would be a private matter entirely up to them.:o)


79 posted on 08/07/2006 1:37:28 PM PDT by imintrouble
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