Posted on 10/27/2006 11:31:40 AM PDT by gobucks
Didn't you say once that your wife gets really argumentative when you have too many of those? Or am I thinking of Gin instead?
Anywah, our son had apparently done acrobatics in the womb, and tangled the umbilical cord. So my wife had to have a C-section... Oh, and they numbed her up first.
Toss in kidney stones, hangnail removal, lasix, laporoscopic procedures, stitches, broken bones and bee stings etc.
Oh, and no aspirin, tylenol, aleive for headaches, muscle sprains, etc.
Pain is our friend!
Holy smokes.. TEN POUNDS??? God Bless you. Mine were both around 8 pounds and that was more than big enough for me.
MM
All I ask is that you stop writing these childbirth without drugs is wonderful articles and have MRS. Gobucks put her words on paper.
Even better, let her do it when you aren't around and post it without you reading it first.
I'm willing to bet my Grannies chamber pot that while she goes along with it, some things aren't as blissful as you make out.
I salute you. :-)
My wife had our second all natural about six months ago. No issues.
57 minutes of labor, I delivered the baby and was part of the experience; she was fine and walking around two hours later.
Had we followed the 'directives' of the medical establishment, I would have watched, my wife would have been miserable, and it surely would have taken longer with a higher probability of a C-section.
Labor and delivery is big money in America.
Good luck!
I have a co-worker who had 3, all in the 9 to 10 pound range.
Even with an epi at the end of each delivery, she refused to go for #4.
Hats off too you dear!
when the fetal monitor showed our first child experiencing stress, all notions of natural childbirth went out the window. C-section was the only option. Had a similar situation occurred 20 years before, it's unlikely she or I would have survived.
Nearly 25 years later we have a beautiful daughter with a good heart and good head on her shoulders who, while independent, is close to her parents and siblings.
As lovely a bonding experience as natural childbirth may be, it's the following years that ultimately count. Enjoy every minute with your new baby.
My husband has said he doesn't feel like he does anything when I am having a baby. But, I can't think of him not being there. He is the one who whispers in my ear during contractions (my midwife thought this was romantic. she didn't realize he was making jokes to make me laugh.)and massages me when needed. He also knows when not to touch me. I only had pain killers once (stadall. it took the edge off so I could rest a little, but I could still feel everything.) The idea of a huge needle in my back is worse to me than any pain from childbirth.
He is our fourth (now 12) and he looked like a three month old when he was born (had a full, and I mean full...think the Suri Cruise photos, head of hair.) The newborn Pampers did not have to be 'rolled down' for his ambilical cord (now they have cut outs but back then they would roll the diaper down in the front); and the little cap kept rolling up and off of his head. He was, as his (then) 8 year old sister said 'ginormous.' Had cracked ribs from his delivery...
Most men feel that attending a few birthing classes with their wives is enough. They will never understand how important it is for a woman enduring childbirth to have a loving, supportive man at her side.
Making across-the-board recommendations, based solely on your individual (vicarious) experience, particularly in such a sensitive and widely varied realm, will...
...most likely get you soundly verbally thrashed...
IMHO, of course.
YMMV.
LOL!
Due to circumstances beyond his control my husband wasn't present in the birthing room for my first child. It was probably fortunate for him, as I kicked a doctor and slapped a nurse and if he had been hovering over me cooing and telling me to breath he probably would have suffered the same fate. I didn't want anyone but my mother near me anyway. I guess that means I lose points as a mother, too, because I didn't want my husband hovering between my legs and oohing and ahhing when his child was born. It's a wonder our daughter has made it so far in life because her parents didn't 'enjoy' the wonder of her birth together, but I really don't think it would be possible for her and her father to have any stronger bond.
(Private to GoBucks) Tell 'em that Mary had no need for 'pain relief' when she gave birth to the baby Jesus. If going 'natural' was good enough for our Blessed Lady then it is good enough for any woman.
Hehe...you mean right now?
Well, I'll tell you what...when I give birth to the Savior himself, I'll go it "natural" too...but, until then, someone better damn well have an epidural waiting for me.
MM
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