[TomOnTheRun]

"They didn't ask, and we just didn't talk about it."
There ya go, the moral of the story.

I'm not really sure that is the moral of the story.

If my friend Jane introduce me to a man by saying "This is my husband Simon." - has she thrust her sex life in my face? I would say no. I'm fairly certain most here would agree. If my friend John introduces me to a man by saying "This is my husband Simon." - has he thrust his sex life in my face? I would say no. I'm fairyly positive most here would agree with me based on past statements.

Why should the one couple go to great lengths to make sure I don't even suspect a relationship if I don't ask the same of the other? I believe I can handle knowing about the reality of such relationships without approving of them.

[TomOnTheRun]

UGh. Wouldn’t agree in that second example. Tiny phone. No coffee. No hot water. Typos. Sorry.

[ROCKLOBSTER]

If my friend John introduces me to a man by saying "This is my husband Simon." - has he thrust his sex life in my face?

Yeah pretty much. This happen to you a lot?