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Finding Husbands for Iraq's Widows
ABC News ^ | 10/9/2009 | Aadel Rashid

Posted on 10/10/2009 9:10:18 AM PDT by Saije

After the bombing of Samarra's famed Shiite Askariya shrine in February 2006, a spate of sectarian-based attacks claimed the lives of many Iraqis. The victims were mostly male, leading to a surge in the number of widows in the country.

Indeed, more than 1 million Iraqi women have become widows in the past three years, according to Samira Al Musawi, the head of the Women and Child Committee in the Iraqi parliament.

So, in 2006, Iraq's Al Ethar NGO, a nonprofit organization that provides women and their children with money and free health care, began a controversial new program to help interested widows find second husbands.

Initially, most of the women balked at the idea, worried about facing adverse responses from their communities.

But the program has seen more than 40 widow remarriages in the past three years. Mohammed Abbas, the executive director of Al Ethar, said his organization supplies interested men with photo albums and biographies of widows willing to remarry, as well as details of any children from first marriages...

..not everyone thinks kindly of Al Ethar's program. Al Musawi said she "declared my full refusal to this idea," likening it to "showcasing and ... selling and buying women through making use of widows' economic status."

But her opposition is not entirely grounded in fact, because the monthly payroll, estimated at $90, paid by the Iraqi government to widows is usually cut off after the women remarry. Al Ethar occasionally helps the newly married couple, providing them with funds to start their new lives, although not every couple receives aid from the establishment.

(Excerpt) Read more at abcnews.go.com ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: iraq; marriage; program; widows
Subheading on the story made it sound like this was really controversial so I read the article to try and found out why. It would seem like a reasonable program as long as there's no coercion. Reporter claims women were worried about "adverse responses" from their community and when I clicked on that link it took me to another ABC story from 2008 about gays being targeted in Iraq. I don't see the connection. Weird.
1 posted on 10/10/2009 9:10:18 AM PDT by Saije
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To: Saije

Heck blow up the widows!

Just kidding.

We don’t need more terrorist kids in the world ... .


2 posted on 10/10/2009 9:12:17 AM PDT by nmh (Intelligent people recognize Intelligent Design (God).)
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To: Saije

Maybe these widows will now think twice about supporting their sons’ wishes to become “martyrs” as so many moslem women do today.


3 posted on 10/10/2009 9:12:42 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Host The Beer Summit-->Win The Nobel Peace Prize!)
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To: Saije

What do they look like?


4 posted on 10/10/2009 9:14:48 AM PDT by FReepaholic (Jump You F**kers!)
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To: Saije

There are lots of young, single soldiers in the US Army...


5 posted on 10/10/2009 9:16:18 AM PDT by OneWingedShark (Q: Why am I here? A: To do Justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with my God.)
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To: Saije

30 million husbands ready and waiting in China, I think the story went yesterday or the day before. Sooner or later it’s goona be “we are here for your women” except I don’t think they will be asking so nicely.


6 posted on 10/10/2009 9:18:21 AM PDT by NonValueAdded ("The President has borrowed more money to spend to less effect than anybody on the planet. " Steyn)
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To: Saije

Can't see why they can't snag a husband.

7 posted on 10/10/2009 9:19:53 AM PDT by YankeeReb
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To: NonValueAdded

Agree, and the Chinese guys won’t dig those Halloween uniforms...so maybe they’ll straighten out the place.


8 posted on 10/10/2009 9:22:30 AM PDT by BobL
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To: Gay State Conservative

Bring back the harems.....


9 posted on 10/10/2009 9:26:17 AM PDT by tflabo
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To: YankeeReb

Hey at least they won’t blow the paycheck on shoes and latest fashion trends! There’s a silver lining in every burqa.


10 posted on 10/10/2009 9:28:20 AM PDT by tflabo
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To: Saije

Well it looks like to me the solution is to have all those single Chinese men go to Iraq and well, you get the picture. /sarcasm


11 posted on 10/10/2009 9:46:21 AM PDT by glaseatr (Father of a Marine, Uncle of SGT Adam Estep. A Co. 2/5 Cav. KIA Thurs April 29, 2004 Baghdad Iraq)
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I wonder how many widows there are in Afghanistan - and China is having bigger balls on terrorism. Tell them to send all their bachelors there, have them kill all the terrorists, and they can marry the girls and widows. We solve their bare branch (boys without wives) problem and our terrorism problem as all once. And, as bad as it sounds, China would be an improvement for their women.


12 posted on 10/10/2009 10:20:32 AM PDT by tbw2 (Freeper sci-fi - "Humanity's Edge" - on amazon.com)
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Evidently you haven’t looked into how the Chinese treat women’s rights. I have a good friend that goes there often on business and he told me that most women are treated like whores. I don’t think China is a good model to go after.


13 posted on 10/10/2009 10:29:08 AM PDT by fish hawk (Lord, help us to attain knowledge and the wisdom to apply it toward your ultimate will.)
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To: Saije
Indeed, more than 1 million Iraqi women have become widows in the past three years... the program has seen more than 40 widow remarriages in the past three years.

100,000 or 200,000 years at this rate and the problem will be solved! At last, a government program that actually works.

14 posted on 10/10/2009 11:19:43 AM PDT by Sherman Logan ("The price of freedom is the toleration of imperfections." Thomas Sowell)
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