I’ll be with you in prayer and thoughts tomorrow.
I so know what you are going through in so many ways. It is a struggle from time to time to even want to keep going. Not so much the loss but the impact the loss has on you after so many years of care-taking.
I am hoping your family issues wind up better than mine here have so far. Of the 6 of us, only one is being a butt head over the estate and other stuff too irritating for me to get into.
We(meaning us here in NY and others from other parts of the country) have not had the opportunity to finalize Mom’s wishes yet. hopefully come the spring we’ll be able to do that.
Anyway.....I know your Mom appreciated all you did for her.
Luv ya
Prayers for you, too, sweetie.
I am sorry you are going through this Nita.. you had a large family & there is usually one among a group to add “interest”.
My brother wants me to have all here.. He has said that repeatedly over the years & also after mom died. He appreciates what I have done for a LONG time with minimal input from him.
But we must go through probate. The home is the only thing of value in her estate. I had toyed with the idea of transferring ownership to me while she was still living but just didn’t get around to it. Would have made things easier.
it is a nice piece of real estate abutting the national park & home ... but the home has so much deferred maintenance that getting $$ out in this market at this time is not expected.
Unfortunately we are in one of the highest property tax areas in NE Ohio & the utilities on a home of 2400 sq feet are high, as you all know.
I know you & I shared a very common journey in so many respects. Like so many things in life you must have been there to truly know..thanks for your note