No, the problem is that God has not put her in my life yet! Not really a problem though...I just need to not try and she will appear if He wants that. I have so much going on in my life that it really is secondary to be honest. And I will attract a good conservative women who know that sex is not nearly as important as spiritual love and that one must replace the other for real growith!
You have a clearly erroneously view of what the Bible teaches about sex within marriage.
Just what church do you attend that teaches what you believe? I know of a couple of denominations that used to teach such things, but there may still be a few.
And that is why you are unmarried. You will never get a woman with that attitude. You need to ask them out. You need to make it happen..not God.