Women just don't have the constitution of men with respect to drinking and partying and should not be trying to keep up with them in that regard. Compared to men they are lightweights and need to stay within their limits.
I don't mean that in a sexist way but facts are facts. I've had women pass out on my couch with two glasses of wine. When they try to keep up with the boys, they get into trouble.
Now for folks like Keith Richards...now that's a whole different level.
They aren’t all like that. I used to know a girl...5’-1” and about 100lbs. She could out drink 90% of all men. And probably beat up a third of them in a fair fight even as small as she was.
To be clear, lots of men can’t keep up with other men, either. I hardly drink. Doubt if I could go glass for glass with a regular drinker. I don’t really have a desire to, either, though.