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Catching my daughter's teacher lying to me... (vanity)(sorry a little long)
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Posted on 02/07/2013 2:51:33 AM PST by MacMattico

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To: MacMattico

At the start of the conversation, mention you are taking notes and will send a summary email to the principal after the call. Then follow-up, with a request for an acknowledgement.


81 posted on 02/07/2013 9:42:04 AM PST by MortMan (Disarming the sheep only emboldens the wolves.)
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To: MacMattico

Sounds like a pretty good response.


82 posted on 02/07/2013 9:45:20 AM PST by Sloth (Rather than a lesser Evil, I voted for Goode.)
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To: MacMattico

I am coming in late on this. What do you want? What will make you happy?

It looks like it is a pissing match now. Lots of discussion on tactics here, but what is the goal?

Most people can tell me in GREAT DETAIL (including me) what we don’t want. It takes clearer thinking to manage toward what you want.


83 posted on 02/07/2013 9:57:37 AM PST by PeterPrinciple ( Lord save me from some conservatives, they don't understand human nature any better than liberals.)
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To: RightOnline

Excellent response!


84 posted on 02/07/2013 11:43:07 AM PST by arjay (NOMOBAMA)
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To: MacMattico

I understand wanting to handle things by e-mail. I like to do e-mail as well, but I also like to talk so I can react immediately to information.

When i do, I immediately write an e-mail at the end of the conversation, outlining exactly what was said and how I interpreted it, and send the e-mail, to allow them to correct any misconceptions.


85 posted on 02/07/2013 9:53:40 PM PST by CharlesWayneCT
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To: yldstrk

Grouchy much?

I am part if the problem? You don’t even know me. But because I had students get their tests signed and RETURN them, I an a horrible person? You have obviously never dates to teach, yet you criticize those who do. Did it ever occur to you that 99 percent if kids just throw the tests away? So I am to copy 40 tests AFTER they’ve been graded and signed because 1 kid may want it? Sheesh! I had parents who copied the tests they signed and kept a copy for themselves, but those were proactive parents who were involved and didn’t expect the teacher to do every little thing.

Seriously, take a pill or something. Attacking someone you don’t know, for something you don’t even understand is very childish. And I am the one who is part of the problem?

Oh and parents were always pleased when they came to discuss their kiddo’s grades and were presented with a very organized folder with all of their child’s tests on display for them to see at a glance.


86 posted on 02/11/2013 12:36:57 PM PST by DrewsMum
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Well it was a problem in my daughter’s class because they didn’t get their math homework back, had a teacher who was a genius but couldn’t get a concept from her mind to theirs and couldn’t see what they had done wrong. Ever heard of snap scan?


87 posted on 02/11/2013 4:40:34 PM PST by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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I have never heard of snap can.

Homework is different than tests. Returning it in a timely manner is vital. It’s not always easy to do for the teacher, but it’s very important.

Just because someone knows something doesn’t make them able to teach it. Teaching is a gift. You have it or you don’t. All the education and certification in the world can’t change that. However, teachers can be taught more effective ways to teach. Continuing education is a great way. Communicating with parents is another. I learned a ton just listening to what they had to say.

I no longer teach...now I homeschool my jr high kid and preschooler. I have been AMAZED at how much more attuned I am to his strengths and gaps in learning. We won’t always homeschool, but I recommend it highly. At least for a year or two.


88 posted on 02/12/2013 5:13:36 AM PST by DrewsMum
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To: MacMattico

I can’t read that whole thing- but I suggest that you do not sacrifice your child to the school system.

They are not your friends.


89 posted on 02/12/2013 5:19:12 AM PST by Truth2012
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To: DrewsMum

Oh sorry, snap scan. It is a very small fast scanner to file for computer.

Yes, the math teacher was the daughter of somebody connected with the school, but all the kids in the class who cared about their grade had tutors too because she just couldn’t get her knowledge across and was in her own world.


90 posted on 02/12/2013 5:19:32 AM PST by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: MacMattico

Sounds like a really bad teacher who is finally getting caught. You guys are just the vehicles for justice. We’ve been there and done that in a few situations in our lives. Don’t let up you are teaching your daughter a valuable lesson about accountability and also how to be a good parent. She won’t forget what you are doing for her. That teacher will proabbly be reluctant for a in person group meeting. You always haev the local press to use as a back up thrteat - lost stations have a reporter who deals with education. Good luck.


91 posted on 02/12/2013 5:33:07 AM PST by MomwithHope (Buy and read Ameritopia by Mark Levin!)
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To: yldstrk

I will have to check into snap can. Hubby has been watching something like that for a while.

As a former teacher, I think too much emphasis is put on grades and not enough on actually learning the material. Kids are so focused on the”grade” that they miss the whole purpose of school. It’s not their fault. It’s the crappy system. I always told them “learn the objective and do the assignments and your grade will automatically come”.


92 posted on 02/14/2013 4:54:35 AM PST by DrewsMum
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To: DrewsMum

good point


93 posted on 02/14/2013 6:43:05 AM PST by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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