Posted on 01/22/2014 9:16:54 AM PST by don-o
“I mean ...”
[I mean, that drives me up the wall!]
I would welcome these nuanced phrases from those around me, here at work. Agreed, that most in the article contain a thought that negates or makes unclear the thought after it (I want to say that your hair is nice), rather than just saying: your hair is nice.
However, all I hear at work is: “I’m all about getting it done”.. or “and I’m like, hey what are you doing, and he’s like, I’m cleaning the car, and then I’m like, but we have to go”...etc...
I would welcome a change...any change.
Let me be perfectly clear.......usually proceeds another 0bama lie.
“With all due respect ....”
I think this article also underscores just how difficult communication is. Communication is often complicated by the language we share but the history we don’t share.
Bless his heart. God love him. Ouch
The thoughts in this article are certainly pertinent but are one sided. When I tee-up a topic I am giving the person a chance to prepare to hear something I know they won’t like so they won’t react defensively without thinking. It acknowledges their feelings and their position from the get go and allows me to law out a counter-position with less confrontation. It also, in a different sort of conversation, expresses my remorse for being on the other side of an argument where the person is apparently expecting me to agree. Not remorse for what I believe but remorse that I am stepping apart by declaring my belief.
"It seems like you can say almost anything you want to the generals as long as you say 'With all due respect' first." (A paraphrased quote from a junior officer who had been in a meeting including senior officers)
To be perfectly honest, and don’t take this the wrong way, but I don’t know any other way to say it ... I think you should post the non-mobile formatted version of this article.
Usually, everything that follows “clearly” is bullshit.....
"Most people think..."
"Polls show..."
"Hi. I'm (Bill/Hillary) Clinton..."
"While I don't disagree..."
"With all due respect..."
All directly precede a big lie.
Especially if spoken by Bob Beckel.
"Make no mistake" is another one.
"To be honest" means everything I said up to this point was a lie.
Elizabeth: Don’t take this wrong, but I disagree.
(Elizabeth: If you take that correctly, you’ll understand that I merely have a different opinion than you. If you take it wrong, you may see it as a personal attack on your cognitive ability.)
“I’m not gonna lie...”
My pet peeve: “I don’t mean to interrupt, but ....” Yes, you do mean to interrupt or you wouldn’t be interrupting. “Sorry to interrupt” is the thing to say.
A bit of wisdom: If you start a sentence with the phrase ‘I really shouldn’t say this’, stop immediately and follow your own advice.
“I hear what you’re saying but....”
(One of my favorites)
“Folks ...”
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