There is a final burst of divorces within 2 years after
Both Spouses are retired
For the first time they are persistently
in the same place, at the same time
Underfoot, Interfering, Etc.
Women often deal with it by
"Encouraging" their husbands to get a hobby... Outside
This is so true. I am amazed to hear so many wives lamenting the fact their husbands have retired. We have a friend whose mother tried to commit suicide three days after her husband retired. Her son said he could not understand why she would do that just as his dad retired...uh..hello? I am very blessed that my husband is my favorite person to hang out with.
nowadays men also encourage the women to leave the house as well. so they can get stuff done without someone else getting in the way.
I remember doing some training one time for my job. As I was sitting in the training room, in walked an elderly woman limping along on a cane. She was in her mid-sixties and could barely hobble along. She could obviously be in retirement, so one of the other trainees asked her why she was still working. She allowed that her husband had retired before she had, and there was no way she was going to around him 24/7. She preferred being in pain at work than being around her "dear" hubby.
My wife (of 18 years) and I have four home schooled kids and a small business. As such, we've spent a great deal more time around each other than lots of other couples. I guess we've just figured out how to give each other enough personal space over the years.
After retirement, I don't see much changing in our day to day routine, so maybe we'll beat those odds.
I married you for better or worse, but not for lunch.
The Evolution of Man
Man begins his life living upstairs.
When he enters his teens, he moves to the basement.
When he gets married, he moves back upstairs.
After a few years, he moves down to the basement again.
Or maybe it's the circle of life?
My grandmother’s one piece of marital advice when I got engaged, “when he retires, dear, make him get a job or hobby.” My grandfather was newly retired and obviously in her way. :) He did get a hobby, genealogy and even wrote a book. When my grandmother died, many years after that conversation, they had been married 70 years.