I hear ya. My son-in-law had been renting his old house to his half-brother. He sold it to him and closing was yesterday after all kinds of machinations to punch all the mortgage items.
His half brother called him last night an said “that lawn service company hasn’t been around here in a bit, can you call them?” He still thought my SIL was gonna pay the lawn service bill (that he HAD to start because his HB let it get to the point that the HOA sent them a letter).
Sometimes relatives are just that - related - but not ‘relevant’ in terms of what matters in one’s life.
“Sometimes relatives are just that - related - but not ‘relevant’ in terms of what matters in one’s life.”
We became educated in that concept after the 2008 election. We dropped some relatives like hot potatoes. (Actually, I like hot potatoes. Obama-voting relatives... not so much.)