there is a really good story line regarding this situation in the Netflix series, "Orange is the New Black..."
Actually, that part is the saving grace of this article (and the larger situation as well): it’s not just about the person doing whatever “fulfills” or “validates” them, but about the emotional wreckage that fulfillment/validation visits on others as well.
We all know that mainstream advocacy of pedophillia is coming. The ONLY way to successfully stand against it is by making the same argument this woman makes: that one persons “fulfillment/validation” can and, in the case of pedophillia WILL emotionally destroy others that get caught up in it.