Both identical in my mind.
Gender? Don’t see the connection, but I’m a woman who has always adored men. I LOVE being female. And I feel sad around people who are confused about their gender, and furious that people try to put that onto innocent children.
Gender has to do with grammar, not sex.
Sex is about humans, not grammar. Your sex is female, not your gender is female.
Do you adore gender with men or do you prefer sex?
When was the last time you pondered if the gender was good for you?