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Florida man found living with his dead mother after a welfare check
CBS 12 News ^ | January 7, 2023 | Skyler Shepard

Posted on 01/07/2023 2:24:08 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks

COCOA, Fla. (CBS12) — Police made a troubling discovery after a welfare check led to

The Cocoa Police Department said they responded to a residence at 2111 Otterbein Avenue on Jan. 1, in regards to a welfare check on 80-year-old Kathleen Ruhlander. The woman's granddaughter contacted police saying Robert Ruhlander, 53, the elderly woman's son, wouldn't let her see her grandmother. When another relative attempted to reach out Ruhlander told her the elderly woman was, "taking a nap."

Officers said multiple welfare checks were attempted that day, however Ruhlander wouldn't let the officers inside the residence, closing the front door behind him when he spoke to law enforcement.

A neighbor told police he believed that the woman was dead inside the home since he hadn't heard the "beeping" sounds from the woman's breathing apparatus in a week or two. The man also noted that the front door of the home was usually left open and it had been shut for quite some time.

(Excerpt) Read more at cbs12.com ...


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Conspiracy; Health/Medicine; Local News; Miscellaneous; Society
KEYWORDS: abuse; arrest; cocoa; elderabuse; florida; floridaman; hangemhigh; homicide; neglect; welfarecheck
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A horrid story made even worse by atrocious writing and editing.

In case anybody wonders what I think should happen to Mr. Ruhlander, well, it involves a well-built wooden structure with a trap door, and a length of rope with a loop in it.

1 posted on 01/07/2023 2:24:08 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

I’m shocked they did a welfare check and caught him.


2 posted on 01/07/2023 2:25:24 PM PST by Williams (Stop Tolerating The Intolerant)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Do you think he should be hanged by the umbilical cord?


3 posted on 01/07/2023 2:36:24 PM PST by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway

If it was preserved in a jar somewhere, it is a viable alternative.


4 posted on 01/07/2023 2:41:31 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

They aren’t saying that he killed her, they’re just saying that he concealed her death?


5 posted on 01/07/2023 2:42:09 PM PST by nickcarraway
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks
Well he looks like a nice enough guy......sheesh
6 posted on 01/07/2023 2:42:17 PM PST by V_TWIN (America...so great even the people that hate it refuse to leave!)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Is it something in the water, the gators.....what????


7 posted on 01/07/2023 2:42:59 PM PST by leaning conservative (snow coming, school cancelled, yayyyyyyyyy!!!!!!)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

So the neighbor figured the lady was dead and didn’t let anyone know?


8 posted on 01/07/2023 2:44:35 PM PST by MayflowerMadam (Stupid is supposed to hurt.)
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To: nickcarraway

Apparently so. But he is vile, and if you don’t think death is suitable as a punishment, then perhaps gen pop will do.


9 posted on 01/07/2023 2:45:43 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: leaning conservative

“Is it something in the water, the gators.....what????”

This stuff happens in every state. They’re jus trying to make Florida look like it’s full of crazy people to make the governor look bad in my opinion. If you want crazy look at California and New York, specifically NYC.


10 posted on 01/07/2023 2:46:04 PM PST by dljordan
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To: nickcarraway

It has happened before. Once Tokyo was gonna celebrate all their 100+ residents only to find most were dead and the family engaged in pension fraud.


11 posted on 01/07/2023 2:46:05 PM PST by Rurudyne (Standup Philosopher)
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To: leaning conservative

Something you may not know about the sunshine state.......it is absolutely FULL of refugees from other states.

Just because this guy lives in Florida doesn’t mean he’s FROM Florida.

Two different things entirely.


12 posted on 01/07/2023 2:46:27 PM PST by V_TWIN (America...so great even the people that hate it refuse to leave!)
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To: dljordan

Florida’s open sunshine laws also make it a lot easier to get these stories written and published.

And all the stories certainly didn’t turn me away from moving down here.


13 posted on 01/07/2023 2:47:38 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: V_TWIN

These events happens regularly. The adult children or child is dependent on the psrental retirement or social security check. When the parent passes on they make a choice and hope they pass away before it is discovered that Pa or Ma has already. Pair of sisters did this and since they lived in a remote area near here got away with it for decades until social security came calling as dad was approaching his centenary. Most of these people are weak or drunks rather than evil.


14 posted on 01/07/2023 3:29:24 PM PST by robowombat ( )
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To: All

“Mother’s not herself today.”


15 posted on 01/07/2023 3:35:24 PM PST by TigerClaws
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Reminds me of the movie ‘Bernie’...in ways!!


16 posted on 01/07/2023 3:37:55 PM PST by YouGoTexasGirl ( )
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Yes indeed, he was “after a welfare check.”


17 posted on 01/07/2023 3:39:10 PM PST by Blurb2350 (posted from my 1500-watt blow dryer)
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To: robowombat

“Most of these people are weak or drunks rather than evil.”

Chances are it’s drugs of one sort or another......and I include gambling under the drugs umbrella.


18 posted on 01/07/2023 3:40:58 PM PST by V_TWIN (America...so great even the people that hate it refuse to leave!)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

This happened in Germany years ago and posted on FR but I can’t find the thread.

At least the German guy knew to put the body in a large bag full of quicklime to cover the odor.

Yes people will do about anything for money.


19 posted on 01/07/2023 3:43:04 PM PST by packagingguy
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To: V_TWIN

do you include alcohol under the drugs umbrella?


20 posted on 01/07/2023 3:43:44 PM PST by bankwalker (Repeal the 19th ...)
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