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7 Lies Modern Churches Need to Stop Believing
Crosswalk ^ | 1/25/2024 | Patricia Engler

Posted on 01/26/2024 8:36:57 AM PST by ducttape45

To glimpse the devastating consequences which can stem from swallowing a lie, look no further than the lowly caterpillar.

While munching its merry way along a plant, a caterpillar may happen upon a leaf that looks like a perfectly sumptuous snack. But the caterpillar doesn’t know that one of its most insidious enemies, the tachinid fly, has already visited that leaf—and left behind a clutch of teeny, tiny eggs. Unwittingly, the caterpillar scarfs down the eggs along with the leaf.

Now the havoc begins to unfurl. The eggs hatch into larvae, which begin to consume the caterpillar. On the outside, the caterpillar is marching along on its business as usual. But on the inside, it’s slowly dying. Its inner assassins develop into adult tachinids, which burst forth to go and lay eggs of their own. Rather than fulfilling its mission to become a butterfly, the caterpillar dies as an asset to its enemy.

Nasty, right?

Now let’s think about how a similar process can unfold in the church. Scripture warns us that we, like the caterpillar, have an enemy who’s constantly seeking “someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). Jesus called this enemy the father of lies (John 8:44).

Like tachinid eggs which prevent a caterpillar from becoming a butterfly, lies left unchecked can keep churches from fulfilling their God-given purpose and potential. Lest we, along with the caterpillar, serve to incubate the cause which would destroy us, let’s look at seven common lies which churches may swallow.

Lie #1: You need to see results or you’re not doing God’s will.

As humans who don’t see the grand scheme of reality God does, it can be easy for us to judge our ministries’ value based only on what we can see—results. We might suspect that if we don’t see our efforts drawing massive crowds (or any crowds), changing countless lives (or any lives), or making a major difference (or any difference), we must not be doing God’s will.

True, a seeming lack of results may signal that we need to prayerfully re-evaluate whether we’re best stewarding the time and resources God has given us. But if we already know we’re performing the task God has called us to, and if we’re fulfilling it to the best of our abilities with the strength He provides, then our perceptions of the results are irrelevant.

Think about the prophet Jeremiah. When God tasked Jeremiah to warn Israel of coming judgement, God told Jeremiah that the people would not repent (Jeremiah 7:27). Like Jeremiah, our job is not to “see results,” but to obey God. Our success does not lie in our impact, but in our faithfulness. And our worth does not rest in the world’s response to us, but in our Creator’s love for us.

Lie #2: Age is proportionate to relevance.

Driven by the desire to see results, some churches may try sporting a youthful appearance in hopes of seeming “relevant.” We may believe that to look attractive to culture, we must appear modern. To appear modern, we must cater to the youthful and stylish. And to cater to the youthful, we must marginalize seniors.

Two questions. First, where does Scripture say the church’s priority is to look attractive to culture? Granted, we don’t want to perpetuate the image that belief in God is outdated and irrelevant. But ask people why they might think belief in God is outdated, and you probably won’t hear them answer, “because churches occasionally play old hymns and may include elderly congregants.”

More likely, you’ll hear people suggest that biblical teachings (and morals) are outdated because “the Bible is a bunch of myths” or “science has disproven Scripture.” Those are lies for another discussion. The point for now is that to show Christianity is relevant, we must demonstrate that its foundation is true—not that its followers are young.

Second, where does Scripture say seniors are less “relevant” than younger people? That’s a message we get from individualistic Western cultures, not from the Bible. If anything, Scripture teaches the significance of godly older adults in the Body of Christ, with elders playing central roles in both ancient Israel (Numbers 11:16) and the early church (1 Timothy 5:17).

Lie #3: People of different ages and stages must be kept segregated.

Believing that age is proportionate to relevance, some congregations might relegate seniors to their own circles and services peripheral to those of the “real” church. Kids, teens, and young adults may also be shuttled away to their separate containers, abridging the Body of Christ into a careful selection of 31-59-year-olds.

I’m absolutely all for offering churchgoers opportunities to access age-specific teaching and to connect with like-minded peers. Those are fantastic, invaluable aspects of belonging to a church—but they’re not the only aspects. If we’re solely learning from and interacting with our peers, then we’re selling ourselves far short.

Personally, I began to deeply appreciate the need for intergenerational relationships within the church when I traveled asking Christian students what helped them keep their faith at university. Across the four continents I visited, students expressed the importance of having both like-minded peers and godly older mentors. Mentorship emerged as one of the top themes from my research!

But age segregation cuts Christians off from so much mentorship. It prevents generations from worshiping together, serving together, and learning from each other. How can we expect the Body of Christ to thrive if we’re disconnecting its members from one another?

Lie #4: Cater to the individual’s comfort.

One reason why churchgoers may expect age-exclusive teaching is because Western churches have long been promoting a culture of Christian consumerism. The message goes, “You deserve a church that suits your tastes, fits your life, makes you comfortable, and keeps you happy.”

This brand of Churchianity teaches Christians to choose a church not by considering, “Does this community teach, believe, and live out the Bible? If so, how can I join in their mission?” Instead, it teaches people to come to church asking, “What’s in it for me?”

Imagine if the early church adopted this same mindset. In that case, Paul may have encouraged believers in Philippians 2:3-8, “Do everything from selfish ambition and conceit, counting yourself more significant than others. Let each of you look only to his own interests. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who came to earth as royalty, demanding the treatment he rightly deserved.”

If that sounds like the exact opposite of what Philippians 2:3-8 actually teaches—that’s because it is. In other words, promoting me-centered Christianity means advancing a message which runs contrary to the gospel.

Lie #5: Tell people what they want to hear.

One particularly deadly symptom of me-centered Christianity emerges when churches only communicate the kinds of messages which people want to hear. This happens when churchgoers become so conditioned to believe the church exists to make them ‘feel good’ that they refuse to tolerate any message which strikes them as offensive—including the gospel.

At best, delivering only messages which people want to hear reduces the church to a self-help society or a social club. Church becomes a place where people can meet with friends, take in a concert, and experience a motivational message. In such churches, average people learn how to lead better existences—but dead souls do not learn Who can make them come alive.

At worst, delivering the messages which people want to hear means spreading false doctrines. Paul warned about such situations in 2 Timothy 4:3 (ESV), explaining, “the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions.”

Lie #6: If you ignore tough topics, they will go away.

Only teaching messages which people want to hear likely means avoiding difficult topics in hopes that the related issues will somehow disappear. Maybe this means dismissing parts of the Bible that are unpopular, uncomfortable, or controversial. Maybe it means silencing tough questions rather than seeking scriptural, logical answers.

Or maybe, it means refusing to take biblical action in the face of adversity, as did the many churchgoers who remained silent in Nazi-occupied Europe.

Unfortunately, difficult issues don’t melt with neglect like ice cream dropped on a sidewalk. Instead, undiscussed topics, unanswered questions, and untaken actions only tend to fester over time, like a deep untreated wound. Cursory references, pat answers, and token responses likely won’t alleviate the situation any more than a band-aid will mitigate gangrene.

Major issues demand major attention. They demand biblical discussion, biblical answers, and biblical responses. These responses, in turn, require immense amounts of wisdom and gentleness (Matthew 10:16), backed with prayer.

Lie #7: If culture and Scripture disagree, side with culture.

When the Bible contradicts our culture, we may be tempted to try adjusting the Scriptures themselves in response. Tweak a verse here, explain away a passage there. Just like that, we can dodge controversy, avoid looking weird, and—above all—stay “relevant.” Easy, right?

Easy…and disastrous.

If we reinterpret, delete, or otherwise interfere with clear teachings from Scripture to accommodate human ideas from outside Scripture, then we’re treating the wisdom of error-prone humans as superior to the word of our infallible God. This elevates humans to illusionary godhood, essentially saying that truth is up to us—that the Bible can mean anything we want it to mean. Such a Bible means nothing whatsoever.

That’s how, by deeming humans right and God wrong, we make our faith irrelevant in our attempts to appear relevant.

Even reinterpreting seemingly minor teachings from Scripture can lead to major consequences. For instance, I’ve seen a professing Christian writer try to accommodate evolutionary teachings by removing a literal Adam from Genesis. But 1 Corinthians 15 affirms that an actual Adam committed actual sin leading to actual death for all humans, which is why Jesus had to die an actual death to pay for human sin.

Rejecting these teachings obligated the writer to conclude that Jesus’ purpose in coming to earth was not to die for our sins, contrary to Scripture’s core salvation message. Ultimately, reinterpreting one teaching in Genesis meant eviscerating historic Christianity.

No room for compromise

In the end, we see that one attempt to mesh Scripture with culture can undermine the gospel. One lie can incapacitate a church. One tachinid egg can keep a caterpillar from becoming a butterfly.

If only that caterpillar had a way to recognize tachinid eggs before accidentally consuming them.

If only we had a way to recognize lies before they consume us.

We do.

God’s word is our ultimate standard for truth. It’s the paramount litmus test for recognizing lies, the weapon for destroying lies, and the reality for replacing lies. By constantly filling ourselves up with God’s word, we can resist swallowing lies that would destroy us. We can grow strong on the truth which sustains us. And we can take wing in fulfilling our God-given purposes.


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What do you all think? Open for discussion, and please, be kind and respectful. Thank you.
1 posted on 01/26/2024 8:36:57 AM PST by ducttape45
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To: ducttape45

God’s word is our ultimate standard for truth. It’s the paramount litmus test for recognizing lies, the weapon for destroying lies, and the reality for replacing lies. By constantly filling ourselves up with God’s word, we can resist swallowing lies that would destroy us. We can grow strong on the truth which sustains us. And we can take wing in fulfilling our God-given purposes.


Anyone here read their Bible today?


2 posted on 01/26/2024 8:44:44 AM PST by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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To: ducttape45

“Open for discussion, and please, be kind and respectful.”

Isn’t that statement at odds with your post? Scripture does not need to conform to liberal and secular standards of being ‘kind and respectful’.

No, Christians are called to comfort the afflicted and to afflict the comfortable.

If someone thinks me unkind because I call out adultery, sexual deviancy, corruption, greed, envy, and any other sin then that’s JUST TOO DAMNED BAD.

I’m also unkind to bullies and to people who hate the Constitution and the United States of America.

Very unkind.


3 posted on 01/26/2024 8:47:02 AM PST by MeganC (There is nothing feminine about feminism. )
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To: ducttape45
For those who remember the comedian Flip Wilson, his "Church of What's Happening Now" was an example of most of these tenets, and unfortunately, most churches these days are also.

Keep in mind, in most churches the bottom line is paramount - not religion.

4 posted on 01/26/2024 8:49:29 AM PST by The Sons of Liberty (Evil Personified: Traitor Joe & The Ho are building their campaign on the bodies of aborted babies.)
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To: ducttape45

I agree. We are citizens of the kingdom of God not this world. Faith is the evidence of Things Not Seen and the substance of things hoped for. We are to stand on the word of God Alone nothing that conflicts with the word of God shall We Believe or even entertain. The only truth is the word of God


5 posted on 01/26/2024 8:49:52 AM PST by spacejunkie2001
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To: ducttape45

I think the biggest damage to the message in a post modern world is the ECT* message. Educated people don’t take Christianity seriously often just because of that. And the “comical” part is that when I try to explain to them that the bible does not teach that, they argue back fervently that it is the core of Christianity as though they were backwoods baptists. Its imperative to them that Christianity teaches that or their single most strong case against Christianity goes away.

*ECT: Eternal Conscious Torment for the lost. This site covers it very well: https://www.jewishnotgreek.com/


6 posted on 01/26/2024 8:51:06 AM PST by cuban leaf (2024 is going to be one for the history books, like 1939. And 2025 will be more so, like 1940-1945.)
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To: ducttape45

Lies #5, 6, and 7 are particularly a problem.

Mega churches I’ve attended just can’t stop with those. Since they are inevitably “seeker-sensitive,” they just can’t broach tough topics.

Churches that elect elders who are divorced and whose spouses are not dead, are another problem.


7 posted on 01/26/2024 8:54:48 AM PST by ConservativeMind (Trump: Befuddling Democrats, Republicans, and the Media for the benefit of the US and all mankind.)
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To: ducttape45

Excellent.

I’ve been to too many churches which have swallowed and/or practiced those lies.

Past tense. We will not attend a church which compromises on God’s Truth.

Also been to a church where the 50 year old pastor was dressing in skinny jeans and acting all hip and young in order to be relevant. While his messages were solid, between the way he dressed and the smoke machine and lights for *worship* the whole *experience* as they called church, was a real turn off.

Thanks for posting


8 posted on 01/26/2024 8:56:20 AM PST by metmom (He who testifies to these things says, “Surely I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus…)
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To: PeterPrinciple

Yes.

And working on memorizing a psalm.

Psalm 119:11 Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.


9 posted on 01/26/2024 8:58:45 AM PST by metmom (He who testifies to these things says, “Surely I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus…)
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To: PeterPrinciple
I do, and also visit these websites for daily devotions:

A Daily Devotional by C. H. Spurgeon - Faith's Checkbook

My Utmost for His Highest

Another Well Devotional

If anyone has other devotional websites, please share them!

10 posted on 01/26/2024 9:02:32 AM PST by ducttape45 (Proverbs 14:34, "Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people.")
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To: MeganC

You’re splitting hairs. What I meant is for us to be kind and respectful to each other here in the forum.


11 posted on 01/26/2024 9:05:33 AM PST by ducttape45 (Proverbs 14:34, "Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people.")
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Skinny jeans? Yuck! I hate to see those no matter who wears them!

And I agree, I won't attend a church that compromises. Problem is, most of them do, and with me having Long Covid it makes getting out very difficult.

12 posted on 01/26/2024 9:07:22 AM PST by ducttape45 (Proverbs 14:34, "Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people.")
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I agree.

And to your point, for the most part those are the churches that lose membership. As are the churches that are descriptive of this main post. I'm sure there are exceptions where there are CINO (Christian In Name Only) churches growing, but not from where I see it. Where I see it there are churches growing because the real Christians are looking for places that encourage faith in Christ not the world, and living it like we mean it not living like the world.

13 posted on 01/26/2024 9:11:16 AM PST by Tell It Right (1st Thessalonians 5:21 -- Put everything to the test, hold fast to that which is true.)
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To: ducttape45
Responses by Raycpa, a newly ordained pastor

Lie #1: You need to see results or you’re not doing God’s will.

I know that numbers are based on what the Holy Spirit is doing and although I see results in the growth of those who attend, I still count heads and get disappointed by dwindling numbers.

Lie #2: Age is proportionate to relevance.Lie #3: People of different ages and stages must be kept segregated.

I am only sensitive to age when drawing on using or comparing culture to biblical principles. My experiences in the 1960's likely are not good comparisons for younger folks. Little ones cannot get much from a sermon and are distracting to their parents.

Lie #4: Cater to the individual’s comfort.

I cater to comfort regarding heat in winter and A/C in summer and attention spans. However, when did the message "repent" bring comfort?

Lie #5: Tell people what they want to hear.

I would love this but then I would be competing with politicians and culture leaders who speak and command audiences far above my abilities. I just have the Gospel.

Lie #6: If you ignore tough topics, they will go away.

I dread nothing more than when the Holy Spirit leads me to preach on tough topics. I really understand Jonah when that happens.

Lie #7: If culture and Scripture disagree, side with culture.

Which culture? Yesterday, tomorrow, last week?

14 posted on 01/26/2024 9:12:44 AM PST by Raycpa
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To: ducttape45

Here’s another list of lies modern churches need to stop believing...

1) I am rich,
2) I am increasing in wealth, and
3) I have need of nothing
Revelation 3:17 - Jesus own words to today’s Laodicean Church

List of truths modern churches need to START believing...

1) I am wretched,
2) I am miserable
3) I am poor
4) I am blind, and
5) I am naked
Revelation 3:17 - Jesus own words to today’s Laodicean Church

List of things modern churches need to start DOING...

1) buy from Jesus gold refined in the fire, that you may be rich [learn of Jesus],
2) buy from Jesus white garments, that you may be clothed, that the shame of your nakedness may not be revealed [forsake self-righteous for the righteousness of God in Christ as a gift],
3) anoint your eyes with eye salve, that you may see [be filled with the Holy Spirit], and
4) be zealous and repent.
Revelation 3:18 - Jesus own counsel to today’s Laodicean Church


15 posted on 01/26/2024 9:15:04 AM PST by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: ducttape45

Churches are dying because they have failed to open the door... to Jesus who declares to be standing at the door knocking.

We gather in His house and shut Him out.

We focus too much on works and not on His Grace.

We cherry-pick scriptures to adorn 30 minute feel-good speeches that say nothing.

As a result we are unprepared and ill-equipped to stand against what Jesus describes as the MOST DECEPTIVE time in human history.

Most pastors are not even willing to discuss from the pulpit the FACT that biblical prophecy (Matthew 24-25) is unfolding right before our eyes.


16 posted on 01/26/2024 9:15:43 AM PST by Safrguns
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To: cuban leaf

Yes. If true to the Bible you are neither in eternal hell or “sent up to heaven” on death; death is a sleep, and after the final judgement you will be either united in God, or gone forever, period. God wants you with Him but he is not going to torture you in hell for an eternity if you shut Him out.


17 posted on 01/26/2024 9:16:09 AM PST by Wuli
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To: cuban leaf

bkmk


18 posted on 01/26/2024 9:18:58 AM PST by sauropod (The obedient always think of themselves as virtuous rather than cowardly.)
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To: ducttape45

What/which modern churches believe/preach these things?

I am not saying none of these things are believed, but the broad brush of “the modern Churches” identifies no church specifically and the reader is left to believe it pertains to ALL “modern churches”, which is surely not true.


19 posted on 01/26/2024 9:19:42 AM PST by Wuli
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Too many churches go soft because they think it helps get more people in the pews. I think people want to hear “tough talk” even if they don’t necessarily live it out.


20 posted on 01/26/2024 9:21:12 AM PST by escapefromboston (Peace, commerce and honest friendship with all nations, entangling alliances with none.)
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