Not trying to pick a fight. I'm sure you weren't self-identifying with serial killers to explain why you didn't want to have kids.
I guess I didn't want to say I pitied those who didn't get to experience the kind of love, in having children, that claws at your soul.
Yeah, I get that it's out there, but I cannot understand.
First you said: I think we can completely dismiss your opinion.
Which is DEFINITELY trying to pick a fight. And I didn’t self identify with serial killers, once again you’re reading poorly. I said many serial killers were unwanted kids. Which proves that there ARE parents that never connect with their kids.
You don’t have to understand it. Just acknowledge it without being rude. Often times the people this is happening to feel really bad about it. Which probably doesn’t help them. Imagine living with someone whose very existence makes you feel guilty. Adding to that won’t help them bond with their kids.