And I never said I wouldn't have a family or children. I just said if I did it would be for my own reasons, and not out of some obligation to my neighbors.
There are a lot of men in this country who went the marriage route, myself included. And how were we rewarded? We were kicked out of our own homes, driven into bankruptcy by the woman we thought we could trust with the help of no fault divorce laws, greedy lawyers and "family" courts who absolutely hate men. Try having you life turn inside-out by all of those parties...oh and it gets better, especially when you see them use your own kids to do it to you. You get to lose most of your assets, a large chunk of your pre-tax income and you get to be a real parent to your kids four days a month. That last item cannot be replaced by ANY amount of money. You'll just have to forgive me if I'm not in a big hurry to put a loaded gun to my head again.
You want more families? Fine...get rid of the no-fault divorce laws and the state, local and federal governments out of the business of subsidizing and encourage the destruction of the family FIRST. Until then, whats left of the American institution of marriage isn't worth saving.