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So Much Clutter, So Little Room: Examining the Roots of Hoarding
The New York Times ^ | Sunday, January 4, 2004 | NINA BERNSTEIN

Posted on 01/04/2004 6:17:43 AM PST by TroutStalker

The cases never cease to fascinate: reclusive people trapped by their own accumulations, in rooms made unlivable by floor-to-ceiling heaps of newspapers, books and saved objects — from twist ties to grand pianos.

Some pass into legend, like the Collyer brothers, "the hermit hoarders of Harlem," who in 1947 were buried by the piles of urban junk that filled their four-story Harlem brownstone. But even less extreme examples, like that of the Bronx man rescued on Monday after being trapped for two days under an avalanche of magazines and catalogs, haunt the public imagination.

Such compulsive hoarding is being recognized as a widespread behavioral disorder, one that is particularly acute in cities like New York, where space is at a premium. The pack rat behavior ranges from egregious cases that endanger lives to more commonplace collecting that resonates with anyone who has ever stacked magazines to read later or bought more shoes than the closet will hold.

One woman, for example, found throwing out a newspaper so unbearable that her therapist instructed her never to buy one again. Another could not pass a newsstand without thinking that one of the myriad periodicals on sale contained some bit of information that could change her life.

And a third, trying to explain why she had bought several puppets that she did not want or need from a television shopping channel, spoke of feeling sorry for the toys when no one else bid on them.

The emotional investment that goes into hoarding makes it much harder to overcome than landlords or housing court judges often understand, said Randy O. Frost, a professor of psychology at Smith College in Northampton, Mass., and a national authority on the disorder who helped a group of medical, legal and social service agencies establish the New York City Task Force on Hoarding a year ago.

Similar groups exist in a dozen places, Dr. Frost said, including Seattle, Ottawa, Fairfax County, Va., and Dane County, Wis.

"I don't know if it's more of a problem in the city than elsewhere, but certainly the limited amount of space makes it come to a head," Dr. Frost added. "Most of this new attention is not coming from the mental health side of things, because many people with this problem don't seek help. It's coming from the housing side and services to the elderly."

Landlords, and lawyers and social workers who deal with elderly tenants, are often among the first to confront the problem.

Toby Golick, a clinical-law professor at Cardozo Law School, described the case of an elderly Manhattan man who rescued broken toys, discarded toasters and dilapidated umbrellas from the street until even his kitchen and bathroom were too crammed for use. The situation came to light only when the landlord could not squeeze in to fix a leaky faucet.

"He picked up things that he thought people were throwing away and still had life," said Ms. Golick, a founder of the hoarding task force, which will hold its second conference at Cardozo on Jan 21. "He was very upset that this was a disposable society and that people were very quick to disregard things of value."

In the end, she said, Cardozo's legal clinic prevented the man's eviction by working patiently with him on a compromise: the bathroom and kitchen would be cleared, and passageways tunneled through the piles of treasured junk in the other rooms. The turning point had been finding a resale shop that would accept some items, so the man would not have to throw them away.

Like the elderly tinkerer, the Bronx man, Patrice Moore, 43, saw treasure where others saw mainly trash. Interviewed yesterday at St. Barnabas Hospital, where he was recovering from leg injuries suffered when his collection collapsed on him, he said he might sue the landlord over the loss of comic books and articles from the 1980's about his favorite entertainer, Michael Jackson.

"I had to squeeze inside my apartment," he said of his 10-by-10-foot room, which rents for $250 a month. "I don't know how I lived that way. The problem was, I never got a storage space."

In one sense, Dr. Frost agreed, space makes the difference between eccentricity and pathology.

"People can collect and not throw things away without it really being a problem if they have the space and can organize it," he said. "It's only a pathology when it interferes with their functioning."

Pathological hoarding can affect people of all ages, and it seems to be related to obsessive-compulsive disorder, added Dr. Frost, who has researched the problem for a decade and recently received a grant to develop a model treatment to be tested on about 40 subjects at the Institute of Living in Hartford and at Boston University.

There are three facets to the problem, he said: enormous emotional difficulty throwing things away; compulsive acquisition — sometimes by buying things, but often by picking them up for free — and a high level of disorganization and clutter.

Many of the people afflicted seem to be unusually intelligent, he said. "They see more connections between things, which leads them to value those things much more than the rest of us do. "

But they also have difficulty finding conventional categories for the information they collect. Instead, they tend to organize their homes by visual or spatial cues — they might locate an electric bill, for example, on the left-hand side of a pile six inches deep, rather than where bills are filed.

This taxes their memory, so they tend to want to leave everything out in plain sight, piled in the middle of the room.

"They have to remember where everything is," explained Dr. Frost. "The rest of us only have to remember our system."

Equally important is their tendency to attach emotional significance to a wider variety of things. "For some it has to do with identity," he said. "I've had people tell me, `If I throw too much away, there'll be nothing left of me.' Almost like a Midas touch — if something comes into my ownership, it's part of me."

Finally, the psychologist said, "throwing something away makes them feel unsafe." The sense of security and comfort that most people feel in the familiar surroundings of home, hoarders may feel only when hemmed in by a nest of debris.

But there was no room for sentiment at the two-story brick apartment building on Morris Avenue in the Bronx from which police, firefighters and other city emergency workers extracted Mr. Moore. A man who would identify himself only as the landlord's brother said that he had stuffed Mr. Moore's trove of paper in garbage bags and stashed it in a back room for the night.

"Tomorrow is trash day," he said.

Janon Fisher contributed reporting for this article.


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: behavior; clutter; disorders; filth; hoard; hoarder; hoarders; hoarding; mentalhealth; ocd; packrat; psychology; squalor; stuff
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To: Dec31,1999
But I've got a garage and basement full of stuff I don't use. ;)

We're the family that has everything.

161 posted on 01/04/2004 5:23:53 PM PST by Dec31,1999
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To: TroutStalker
A couple of months ago, one of my neighbors decided that since she became a vegetarian and started doing a lot of legal work for animal rights activists, she no longer felt comfortable with her leather stuff, so she gave it all away -- jacket, briefcases, shoes, etc. That's how I wound up with a gorgeous, black leather jacket which is *so* soft and hangs just perfectly on me. :)
162 posted on 01/04/2004 5:26:41 PM PST by NYC GOP Chick (no longer sneezing, but still fairly cranky and sick right now :( ....)
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To: Dec31,1999
But I've got a garage and basement full of stuff I don't use. ;)

We're the family that has everything.

163 posted on 01/04/2004 5:27:18 PM PST by Dec31,1999
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To: JoeSchem
I've been scanning in knitting pattern books that use the most & burning cds--and I'm setting aside the rest to sell on EBay. Ditto for cookbooks. We've gotten rid of most of our books, except reference books and a few favorite novels. The attic is pretty clear, the bookshelves are cleaned out and now we're working on the basement. We're even thinning down our clothes.

There just isn't a lot of storage space on a boat. And, after having lived on a small boat on weekends, vacations, holidays, etc., from April until early December (as long as we can push the saling season in Wisconsin), if something comes on the boat, something has to come off. It's a very sparse lifestyle.

164 posted on 01/04/2004 5:28:06 PM PST by Catspaw
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To: FormerACLUmember
LOLOLOL!!!!!!!!! Uncontrollably laughing at this comment! This is my dear hubby and me all over!! Well there is a path to walk for sure in the house, and I am forever " gutting" stuff out, but who can resist a fixable dishwasher in the neighbor's trash? and why spend money on spare car parts when you can salvage the WHOLE CAR from the neighbor's driveway!! LOLOL!!! well you get the point! I too just printed out 5 copies and will file them on hubbys desk in case I need them!! *grin* HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL!!
165 posted on 01/04/2004 5:29:09 PM PST by pollywog (Psalm 121;1 I Lift mine eyes to the hills from whence cometh my help.)
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To: cajungirl
I'm like you: I hate clutter and storing things that aren't used on a regular basis. It backfires once in awhile when I go to take something out, only to discover I have gotten rid of it. I will sometimes have to get a replacement, but usually I just go without it. I would be what might be called an anti-hoarder.
166 posted on 01/04/2004 5:32:52 PM PST by Trust but Verify (Will work for W)
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To: pollywog
I treasure you comments. Now to print them up and add them to my collection!
167 posted on 01/04/2004 5:36:27 PM PST by FormerACLUmember (One man with courage makes a majority)
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To: tiamat
We are moving to a smaller home next year and I REALLY do not see what I will do with all of the accumulated crap of a 20 + year marriage.

eBay.

168 posted on 01/04/2004 5:36:51 PM PST by giotto
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To: TroutStalker
The root cause... capitalism we get rid of that and presto problem solved.
169 posted on 01/04/2004 5:38:40 PM PST by freeforall
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To: Dec31,1999
But I've got a garage and basement full of stuff I don't use. ;)

We're the family that has everything.

170 posted on 01/04/2004 5:42:31 PM PST by Dec31,1999
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To: pollywog
but who can resist a fixable dishwasher in the neighbor's trash?

Appparently not many. During our decluttering project, I found that if I just set something on the curb behind the shed, which is visible at an intersection, it would disappear - sometimes before I made it all the way back to the house (short walk). Saved trying to fit it in the car and drive it to the thrift store. Once we made a giant pile of junk back there from decluttering the shed. I made an appointment for bulk trash pick up. By pick up date, there was nothing left!

171 posted on 01/04/2004 5:42:54 PM PST by meowmeow
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To: SeaDragon
Although I come by it honestly, I got it from my maternal line! :-)

Well I am sure that she probably got it the same way.....

My mother and MIL (DH is only child) both have tons of stuff...nick-nacks, "collectables," dish sets, family jewerly, kitchen crap and who knows what else. I told them both the same thing: Estate Sale. They had a hard time grasping it but I will not suddenly have truckloads of stuff dumped on me when I am old!

172 posted on 01/04/2004 5:47:44 PM PST by meowmeow
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To: meowmeow
Although I come by it honestly, I got it from my maternal line! :-)

Well you want to keep the jewelry and anything of great value but the rest is prime estate sale stuff. I hope I remember that should a time come.............

173 posted on 01/04/2004 7:05:48 PM PST by SeaDragon
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To: SeaDragon
Well you want to keep the jewelry and anything of great value

They both mentioned the jewelry. Good grief - I would be one decked out old broad!

174 posted on 01/04/2004 7:21:15 PM PST by meowmeow
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To: sauropod
I'm so sorry, saur...I thought everyone who knew her had been notified and had a chance to say good bye.
175 posted on 01/04/2004 7:48:36 PM PST by jellybean (Taglines are easy...it's filling in the reply box that takes thought. :)
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To: TroutStalker
Oh, no! I can't believe you threw out that stuff. I agree, a genealogist will curse you. People, please cart all those old photos and clippings around to all the old relatives and have them ID them on the backs. Donate what's left to a local genealogy club, library, or museum, university history department. Donate those items which can be identified by a landmark (school, courthouse, park) give it to the appropriate person of each location.

I became the family genealogist at the ripe old age of 20 when visiting a relative. We happened upon a box of old family photographs in a box out in the horse barn. There were pictures dating back to the Civil War for goodness sakes.
176 posted on 01/04/2004 8:08:29 PM PST by mtbopfuyn
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To: TroutStalker

177 posted on 01/04/2004 8:12:09 PM PST by BunnySlippers (Help Bring Colly-fornia Back ...)
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To: radiohead
I love Clean Sweep. It's motivated me to start eliminating some of our stuff. I'm sick of having garge sales and there's not much worthy stuff to donate so most is headed out to a landfill. The stumbling block is garbage can isn't as large as my motivation so hope I can sustain it for a while until the job is finished.

BTW, the families on the show admit to doctoring up their mess for the camera.
178 posted on 01/04/2004 8:21:07 PM PST by mtbopfuyn
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To: TroutStalker; onyx
Oh Lord. Pinging myself for later reading.
179 posted on 01/04/2004 8:24:08 PM PST by onyx (Your secrets are safe with me and all my friends.)
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To: Catspaw
STUFF YOU SAY ??..............:o)

George Carlin - A place for my stuff
Actually this is just a place for my stuff, ya know? That's all, a little place for my stuff. That's all I want, that's all you need in life, is a little place for your stuff, ya know? I can see it on your table, everybody's got a little place for their stuff. This is my stuff, that's your stuff, that'll be his stuff over there.
That's all you need in life, a little place for your stuff. That's all your house is: a place to keep your stuff. If you didn't have so much stuff, you wouldn't need a house. You could just walk around all the time. A house is just a pile of stuff with a cover on it. You can see that when you're taking off in an airplane. You look down, you see everybody's got a little pile of stuff. All the little piles of stuff.

And when you leave your house, you gotta lock it up. Wouldn't want somebody to come by and take some of your stuff. They always take the good stuff. They never bother with that crap you're saving. All they want is the shiny stuff. That's what your house is, a place to keep your stuff while you go out and get...more stuff! Sometimes you gotta move, gotta get a bigger house. Why? No room for your stuff anymore.

Did you ever notice when you go to somebody else's house, you never quite feel a hundred percent at home? You know why? No room for your stuff. Somebody else's stuff is all over the goddamn place! And if you stay overnight, unexpectedly, they give you a little bedroom to sleep in. Bedroom they haven't used in about eleven years. Someone died in it, eleven years ago. And they haven't moved any of his stuff! Right next to the bed there's usually a dresser or a bureau of some kind, and there's NO ROOM for your stuff on it. Somebody else's s--- is on the dresser. Have you noticed that their stuff is s--- and your s--- is stuff? God! And you say, "Get that s--- offa there and let me put my stuff down!"

Sometimes you leave your house to go on vacation. And you gotta take some of your stuff with you. Gotta take about two big suitcases full of stuff, when you go on vacation. You gotta take a smaller version of your house. It's the second version of your stuff. And you're gonna fly all the way to Honolulu. Gonna go across the continent, across half an ocean to Honolulu. You get down to the hotel room in Honolulu and you open up your suitcase and you put away all your stuff. "Here's a place here, put a little bit of stuff there, put some stuff here, put some stuff--you put your stuff there, I'll put some stuff--here's another place for stuff, look at this, I'll put some stuff here..." And even though you're far away from home, you start to get used to it, you start to feel okay, because after all, you do have some of your stuff with you.

That's when your friend calls up from Maui, and says, "Hey, why don'tchya come over to Maui for the weekend and spend a couple of nights over here." Oh, no! Now what do I pack? Right, you've gotta pack an even SMALLER version of your stuff. The third version of your house. Just enough stuff to take to Maui for a coupla days. You get over to Maui--I mean you're really getting extended now, when you think about it. You got stuff ALL the way back on the mainland, you got stuff on another island, you got stuff on this island. I mean, supply lines are getting longer and harder to maintain.

You get over to your friend's house on Maui and he gives you a little place to sleep, a little bed right next to his windowsill or something. You put some of your stuff up there. You put your stuff up there. You got your Visine, you got your nail clippers, and you put everything up. It takes about an hour and a half, but after a while you finally feel okay, say, "All right, I got my nail clippers, I must be okay." That's when your friend says, "Aaaaay, I think tonight we'll go over the other side of the island, visit a pal of mine and maybe stay over." Aww, no. NOW what do you pack? Right--you gotta pack an even SMALLER version of your stuff. The fourth version of your house. Only the stuff you know you're gonna need. Money, keys, comb, wallet, lighter, hanky, pen, smokes, rubber and change. Well, only the stuff you HOPE you're gonna need.

© April 2000 George Carlin from "Braindroppings"


Stay Safe !
180 posted on 01/04/2004 8:28:40 PM PST by Squantos (Support Mental Health !........or........ I'LL KILL YOU !!!!)
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