What Do About Female Promiscuity (Why Daughters Need Fathers As Much As Sons)

Jerusalem Post ^ | 3/31/04 | Shmuley Boteach

[VRWC_minion]

Ms Steinem? I didn't know you were a FReeper!

I did tell her that after she turns 25 they are okay.

[Tax-chick]

What a cutie! I like the work-for-dates idea, too.

We're thinking of a "date the family" system: You like our daughter? Great! Come to church with us, and then come home and have dinner, play ball with the brothers, tell mom and dad about your career plans, offer to wash dishes or read a story to the babies. If that works out, maybe you'll get an invitation to camp or hunt ... let's see if you impress Grandad. When were you planning to do your military service? Good idea ... we'll all look forward to reading your letters from Iraq. Elen loves jewelry, so keep your eye out for bargains while you're overseas ...

Our oldest daughter is 13, so it won't be long before we have to do *something* with boys. She currently says she plans to be an old maid with cats, so maybe we'll just have to say, "Sorry, Josie's not interested, please don't call again!"

[tm22721]

Men have been taught by political correctness to keep their distance from their daughters lest it be misinterpreted.

You can't even hug your daughter anymore without society second-guessing your intentions.

BUMP

[John O]

I like the date the family idea as well. Of course since most of my family is 6 hours away that would be a good way to put off dating!

[longtermmemmory]

Why have millions of young American women abandoned the feminist dream of being taken seriously by men and instead decided to gain male attention with degrading spectacles of their bodies?

Money for sex. or at least sexuality. Girls know that a $5000,00 breast implants will get them alot farther than just a college degree.

Feminism is only for ugly women who can't be helped by plastic surgery or don't have the courage to get plastic surgery.(/s)


Donald Trump dates pretty girls, If you are pretty you will get ahead too.
Looks are sold as a equal comodoty to brains.

In the end the woman's movement has worked to feminize the men and ritalin the boys. In the same move they have succefully elevated the status of "slut" to a college major.

[longtermmemmory]

forgot to add: This is part of the hollywood culture that pushes insecuirty and has strived to make people believe that ugliness is entirely curable into the hollywood ideal de jour.

[GreatOne]

That was exactly what I did with my wife, although it's called "courtship". Long distance does make it tough, but it works wonders. After six years of marriage I'm around her family more than my own, so you better get to know the in-laws pretty well so that you're liked and accepted. And is a very good impetus to not engage in marital activity - trust me!

Dating has only been around for about 100 years, and is (obviously) a complete failure. Dating was actually started by the lower classes, because they did not have parlors or places within a home/apartment for the couple to have some privacy. Working well, isn't it? People start to engage in sexual activity, and they either don't know who they're marrying because they're blinded by the sex, or the relationship does not end in marriage, and both parties add emotional baggage to carry to their next relationship.

I think that's why people are waiting longer to get married: the guys are getting it for "free", so why take on the additional burdens of marriage and family. The women keep hoping that marriage will happen, but get put off; when this happens in their early 20s, they are much less willing to commit in later relationships because of being burned. What a price to pay for sexual "freedom".

[Rubber_Duckie_27]

I totally agree. My father was the most important man in my life until I was 19 or 20 and started seriously seeing my now-fiance. My dad was the one person I could talk to about ANYTHING, and I knew I'd always recieve loving guidance and insight into the situation. As an adult, I still ask my father for opinions and advice on many matters.

It's only been in the last few months that I've realized how similar my future husband is to my father in many ways. It's really true that most women seek a partner who is similar to her father!

[Rubber_Duckie_27]

This is actually how my fiance and I developed our relationship, especially the first year or so...we'd spend time together with our families. We'd help my brother work on his bicycle, or we'd help his mom with her gardening, things like that. The other was always invited for family gatherings or even just Sunday dinner at home. As a result, there was no "getting to know the inlaws" period...his family already knows me very well, and vice versa.

This just sort of came naturally to us. With the right kind of boy dating a girl, it is still quite possible to do things this way. We were 19 and 20 when we started dating, but it would work nicely with the older teen who is still living at home.

[Tax-chick]

Those are very encouraging stories. We feel that if a person doesn't (pretty much) enjoy participating in our family life, then they're not the sort of person our son or daughter would be happy with. So often people will get married to someone who seems wonderful (and maybe he or she is, objectively) but then they find that they don't like "real life" together.

[Democratshavenobrains]

Good plan. But seriously people, I'm pretty sure there is a compromise between "raising an easy daughter" and "locking her up and forcing Muslim like dress code standards and practices".

[nmh]

Oh, what a beautiful sweetheart!

I'd bet she looks just like you too? I often see little girls look like their Dads. When I see this it is when it is a first born little girl and if their is a little boy he will look like the mother. After the "one of each" and there are more children then there is more of a mix of Mom and Dad or looks and attributes extend to other members of the family. In any case it is always a joy.

[John O]

She has her mother's looks (Thank God) but my expressions. Just incredibly cute.

It got to be such a bother going shopping because people would stop us so they could see "Please wait right here. I've got to get my mother, she has to see this baby".

You naturally think your child is beautiful but try to be somewhat modest about it. But after having total strangers carrying babies tell us that our baby was the most beautiful child they've ever seen and having this happen time and time again you just get used to it. ("You have 1 minutes to admire. Don't touch and don't crowd. (1 minute passes) OK, times up, have a great day") God has blessed me with perhaps the most beautiful girl child ever born.

(And pictures don't really do her justice. Get her flashing those big brown eyes at you and you're done for)

[The Right Stuff]

you have nailed it precisely. Feminism has devolved into a complete opposite of what it was supposed to be. Today, they're teaching college kids that "prostitution is empowerment". Hugh Hefner must be laughing all the way to the bank.

[stevio]

I'll try to remember this as my daughters get older. For the most part, I think it's already written on my heart.

[El Conservador]

Even if her body is looking more like her mother's, in her heart she is still your little girl and she needs to be held and loved by her father. Pushing her away at this time will just push her to some other man who will give her attention, but not in the wholesome non-sexual way that her father would.

First of all, sorry for rehashing this thread.

And second, if a father tries anything like hugging his 15-year-old daughter in public, the feminazis in the social services agencies and the legal system will make sure the guy hangs high for "statutory rape".

Feminazis would rather have his daughter be banged by the whole high school football team.

[John O]

What you say is probably true. However most 15 year old's don't want hugs in public. That would ruin her reputation you know. (the second verse of "butterfly kisses" rule)

But at home they still need daddy time.

The feminazis have destroyed the lives of an entire generation of women. Fortunately some of them are waking up and raising their daughters in the tried and true way that works.

And of course many Christian families never swallowed the feminist BS in the first place. I'm very fortunate to live in a very Christian community where there are lots and lots of conservative families doing things the right way.

[Oberon]

Of course daddy is mostly immune to this.

You kid yourself, sir...if my experience with my beautiful 10-year-old is any indication.

[Little Bill]

My daughter is 30 and I am still supposed to right all wrongs.

[ArGee]

Why have millions of young American women abandoned the feminist dream of being taken seriously by men and instead decided to gain male attention with degrading spectacles of their bodies?

It's a faster and easier way to make money. And since there is no such thing as right and wrong, even their fathers don't mind any more.

Shalom.