[Quix]

yES, THANKS.

It's on my HD somewhere!

Mother really is past the stage when she'd prefer to still be in this life.

On the other hand, she has virtually never had the graciousness to go anywhere very . . . serenely.

She fusses about wanting Jesus to come and get her. Yet, has trouble letting go. And that's when she's mostly in whatever degree of awareness she has left.

It's real tricky trying to figure out how to get her to let go. Has never been a great facility of hers.

[cherry]

You are up against one of the greatest battles of all time.....how to help a very much loved one leave this world naturally and without guilt or remorse....

I know one nurse who would tell very sickly elderly patients that they "could go now".....giving them a permission so to speak , to slip out of this world peacefully.....

The time will come......just hang in there and make it go as Godly as it can.....