I'm just responding to my instincts.
Apparently you have been socialized to see yourself as the helpless victim of forces beyond your control.
There is little I can do to help you except to reaffirm the possibility of your exercising free will and self-control.
If you believe that you're helpless, then you are.
Did I say I was helpless? Where did you get the idea I was socialized to see myself as a victim? Did you READ my post? I have no idea what you are talking about. I was talking about responding to my instincts to a man the same way you respond to the opposite sex.