When I was in my 20's, I was once at the apartment of a friend of a friend who was a very effeminate homosexual male. As we were leaving he couldn't help but slap my behind and compliment me on it. I didn't get why he thought his behavior was okay.
We had a former male homosexual who had been a cross dresser speak at our church. He said that homosexuality is the worship of the creation over worship of the creator. Which would explain why some homosexuals who want to leave homosexuality want to exchange lust for same sex for lust of the opposite sex.
You will hear all kinds of homosexuals say all kinds of things......just like you will finds different kinds of straight people. The gay people I know are professionals, lawyers, doctors, even some who do PR for the Republican party, and they aren't narcissistic, and they've been in relationships longer than most of the straight people I know.
When it comes to worshipping the creation over the creator, that's a problem with our American society in general......that's pop culture for you. I agree though, its a problem