Exactly. With email, ipagers etc in business we can get 50 people to review and agree on wordings for contracts or documents in less than a week.
You realize of course that the reason for the activism by the queer community to get marriage recognition is to take advantage of various Federal benefits. You eliminate the benefits and the issue disappears. The courts have stripped all state laws that reflect the wishes of the public regarding their idea of moral or reasonable conduct. Most of the problems could be taken care of by statute restricting the Federal courts from injecting themselves into state laws based on marriage or state moral issues based on state standards of behavior.