Then you need glasses, because I have read the qu'ran. I'm well aware of Muhammad's wine/opium soaked, graphically violent rants against all of us of other faiths.
I also know there ARE moderate Muslims, who do ignore the violent aspects. Maybe they're more lapsed than Muslim, but they identify themselves as Muslim. THOSE are the people that radical clerics have called on to be killed if they help the war on terror in any way.
You make my point for me. Someday THOSE are going to have to choose between killing us infidels or being killed by their muslim "brethren." How do you think they are going to choose? Do you want to be there when they do?
By "ignoring the violent aspects" all they are doing is buying time -- those aspects ARE the core of islam.