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Best and worst cities for dating...
Prweb ^ | 9/4/04 | Sperling

Posted on 09/08/2004 4:55:02 PM PDT by qam1

There are some U.S. cities that just don’t have what it takes when it comes to dating. Take Pittsburgh, PA for example.

(PRWEB) September 4, 2004 -- There are some U.S. cities that just don’t have what it takes when it comes to dating. Take Pittsburgh, PA for example. According to a recent study conducted by Sperling’s Best Places and featured on MSN.com, the city ranks as one with the lowest number of 18-24 year-olds. So, if you’re a Pittsburgh single between 18-24 years old looking to “hook up” with someone your age, your chances are probably slim to none.

Study experts for Sperling’s Best Places identified several cities as the “worst cities for dating” including Houston, TX; Pittsburgh, PA; Atlanta, GA; Louisville, KY; Minneapolis-St. Paul, MN and Wichita, KS.

These cities had one or more reasons for not measuring up, including:

Lowest percentage of singles. Jewelry is least often bought as a gift in this area. Least number of bars, coffee shops or other “hotspots” to meet singles.

So, what can single people do?

“It’s good to be proactive, but instead of packing up and moving to a different city or state in search of more singles, consider joining a dating service. A dating service often has a large membership database and the ability to accommodate thousands of members,” said Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating Service.

Meeting the Dating Demand Catering to more than 125,000 members at over 60 locations throughout North America, The Right One and Together Dating Service is the largest bricks and mortar dating service in the industry, offering a more consistent product, a greater number of potentially compatible mates and added value of flexibility in transferring memberships to another geographic region.

Not surprisingly, The Right One and Together Dating offices are located precisely where lack of singles makes dating near impossible. The Right One offices are located in Louisville, KY, Atlanta, GA and Pittsburgh, PA. Together Dating meets the demand of singles with offices in Wichita, KS, Minneapolis, MN and Houston, TX.

“When new members provide us with feedback on what made them decide to join our dating service, more often than not it is because they want to be proactive in finding that special someone. Yet, the old real estate adage ‘location, location, location’, can also ring true in the dating world. If the demographic in your area is made up of mostly senior citizens and you’re a single 20-or 30-something trying to find a date with someone around your own age, the choices are going to be very limited. There’s no guarantee that your path will ever cross with those other single folks. Consider enlisting the help of professional matchmakers. Don’t leave dating all to chance,” Falzone explained.

About Sperling’s Best Places Sperling’s Best Places has been analyzing data of people and places and rating them for publications for nearly 20 years. For more information about Sperling’s Best Places, visit www.BestPlaces.net.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News
KEYWORDS: cities; genx; singles; topten
Here are the full results of the study @ http://www.bestplaces.net./docs/studies/DatingCities.aspx

Rank Name Score 18-24 Pct 18-24 Single Pct Score - Online dating Index - venues Index - expen.
1 Austin-San Marcos, TX 100.0 13.4% 81.2% 77.8 59.4 84.8
2 Colorado Springs, CO 88.7 10.5% 74.2% 88.9 69.6 69.6
3 San Diego, CA 84.0 11.3% 79.4% 77.4 89.8 34.1
4 Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill, NC 80.7 11.6% 82.9% 79.2 37.9 67
5 Seattle-Bellevue-Everett, WA 78.7 9.0% 83.9% 100.0 100 44.3
6 Charleston-North Charleston, SC 78.7 11.2% 82.7% 66.9 62 96.2
7 Norfolk-Virginia Beach-Newport News, VA-NC 77.0 11.2% 75.6% 82.9 29.1 58.2
8 Ann Arbor, MI 75.5 12.9% 90.3% 51.1 56.9 3.7
9 Springfield, MA 75.2 11.7% 89.8% 63.5 94.9 62
10 Honolulu, HI 75.2 10.1% 82.3% 50.2 91.1 5
11 Jersey City, NJ 73.2 10.4% 85.6% 61.0 60.7 94.9
12 Columbus, OH 71.5 10.7% 84.5% 64.8 51.8 63.2
13 Tacoma, WA 70.4 9.8% 76.2% 88.4 55.6 59.4
14 Columbia, SC 69.3 11.6% 79.8% 53.7 26.5 86
15 Portland-Vancouver, OR-WA 67.9 9.3% 79.3% 75.0 74.6 74.6
16 Denver, CO 65.2 9.0% 77.3% 75.2 87.3 48.1
17 Baton Rouge, LA 61.6 12.8% 83.7% 39.0 3.7 72.1
18 New York, NY 61.4 9.6% 85.5% 55.9 53.1 53.1
19 Oakland, CA 61.1 8.8% 83.5% 55.8 68.3 8.8
20 Providence-Fall River-Warwick, RI-MA 60.8 10.3% 88.4% 57.5 81 83.5
21 Phoenix-Mesa, AZ 57.8 10.1% 76.0% 62.1 39.2 64.5
22 Cincinnati, OH-KY-IN 57.5 9.0% 83.7% 41.6 65.8 26.5
23 Orlando, FL 57.3 9.5% 81.4% 85.0 17.7 92.4
24 Dayton-Springfield, OH 57.0 10.0% 81.9% 50.2 36.7 45.5
25 Akron, OH 56.1 9.5% 88.0% 48.5 77.2 17.7
26 Fresno, CA 54.8 10.9% 76.1% 21.0 5 11.3
27 Gary, IN 54.6 9.4% 86.1% 40.2 67 36.7
28 Toledo, OH 53.9 11.1% 85.3% 54.4 83.5 39.2
29 Tucson, AZ 53.2 10.9% 81.8% 49.9 20.2 77.2
30 Fort Worth-Arlington, TX 52.8 9.7% 73.7% 58.8 7.5 78.4
31 New Orleans, LA 52.0 9.7% 85.6% 33.0 43 51.8
32 Los Angeles-Long Beach, CA 51.9 10.3% 81.2% 42.1 63.2 13.9
33 Albany-Schenectady-Troy, NY 50.7 9.5% 82.9% 74.0 82.2 91.1
34 Baltimore, MD 50.6 8.6% 86.8% 58.4 79.7 10.1
35 Wilmington-Newark, DE-MD 50.5 9.9% 84.1% 55.1 58.2 27.8
36 Grand Rapids-Muskegon-Holland, MI 50.4 10.3% 82.3% 41.8 13.9 24
37 Omaha, NE-IA 49.8 9.8% 81.5% 54.4 75.9 55.6
38 San Francisco, CA 49.8 8.1% 86.1% 93.2 98.7 25.3
39 San Jose, CA 49.7 9.3% 83.0% 66.9 70.8 1.2
40 Sacramento, CA 47.5 8.8% 80.0% 61.8 48.1 35.4
41 Salt Lake City-Ogden, UT 47.4 12.7% 71.3% 58.5 16.4 65.8
42 Nashville, TN 47.0 10.2% 78.2% 65.1 6.3 75.9
43 Milwaukee-Waukesha, WI 47.0 9.1% 86.2% 43.5 78.4 22.7
44 Miami, FL 46.2 9.1% 81.6% 39.8 24 54.4
45 Oklahoma City, OK 46.0 11.4% 76.8% 61.4 12.6 82.2
46 Washington, DC-MD-VA-WV 45.6 8.7% 83.8% 75.0 49.3 6.3
47 Little Rock-North Little Rock, AR 45.1 10.0% 76.0% 51.5 21.5 73.4
48 Ventura, CA 44.3 9.0% 80.5% 44.7 93.6 0
49 Tampa-St. Petersburg-Clearwater, FL 44.1 7.5% 80.6% 77.1 46.8 87.3
50 Riverside-San Bernardino, CA 43.8 9.8% 77.1% 34.3 10.1 16.4
51 Dallas, TX 43.5 10.1% 73.5% 67.3 31.6 41.7
52 Las Vegas, NV-AZ 43.0 8.8% 73.9% 68.0 44.3 89.8
53 Jacksonville, FL 42.4 9.0% 79.1% 74.0 50.6 79.7
54 Syracuse, NY 42.0 9.8% 87.3% 48.3 88.6 97.4
55 Chicago, IL 41.7 9.5% 83.5% 38.6 64.5 12.6
56 McAllen-Edinburg-Mission, TX 41.7 11.3% 65.3% 0.0 0 15.1
57 San Antonio, TX 41.5 10.3% 77.3% 47.6 11.3 88.6
58 Fort Lauderdale, FL 41.4 7.2% 83.3% 77.5 35.4 60.7
59 Orange County, CA 41.2 9.4% 80.7% 56.0 84.8 2.5
60 Indianapolis, IN 41.1 8.8% 80.1% 59.9 34.1 20.2
61 Richmond-Petersburg, VA 40.9 8.9% 83.2% 59.7 2.5 46.8
62 Rochester, NY 40.4 9.3% 85.7% 58.4 96.2 70.8
63 Boston, MA-NH-ME 38.4 8.9% 88.8% 68.1 97.4 29.1
64 Philadelphia, PA-NJ 38.2 8.8% 88.2% 46.9 73.4 43
65 Albuquerque, NM 36.8 9.8% 81.1% 47.4 22.7 98.7
66 Memphis, TN-AR-MS 36.6 9.5% 81.0% 38.8 1.2 32.9
67 Cleveland-Lorain-Elyria, OH 35.9 7.8% 86.3% 35.4 86 30.3
68 Harrisburg-Lebanon-Carlisle, PA 35.8 8.7% 82.9% 52.5 72.1 100
69 St. Louis, MO-IL 35.5 8.8% 83.6% 44.4 40.5 37.9
70 Stockton-Lodi, CA 35.5 10.0% 73.1% 27.0 15.1 50.6
71 Charlotte-Gastonia-Rock Hill, NC-SC 35.3 9.1% 75.8% 55.4 45.5 49.3
72 Houston, TX 34.5 10.0% 73.7% 42.7 27.8 31.6
73 Pittsburgh, PA 33.1 8.1% 87.7% 40.5 92.4 93.6
74 Atlanta, GA 32.5 9.5% 79.3% 72.8 18.9 21.5
75 Greensboro-Winston-Salem-High Point, NC 31.8 9.5% 76.9% 44.9 8.8 56.9
76 Louisville, KY-IN 29.9 8.8% 81.2% 50.9 32.9 68.3
77 Detroit, MI 29.7 8.1% 86.8% 41.7 54.4 7.5
78 Minneapolis-St. Paul, MN-WI 29.6 9.2% 85.0% 59.9 30.3 18.9
79 Wichita, KS 29.1 9.4% 75.0% 51.8 41.7 81
80 Kansas City, MO-KS 28.5 8.6% 79.4% 55.7 25.3 40.5

1 posted on 09/08/2004 4:55:03 PM PDT by qam1
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To: qam1

I am SOOO glad I'm out of the dating scene!


2 posted on 09/08/2004 4:56:41 PM PDT by RandallFlagg (<a href="http://www.michaelmoore.com" target="_blank">Hatriotism)
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To: qam1; ItsOurTimeNow; PresbyRev; tortoise; Fraulein; StoneColdGOP; Clemenza; malakhi; m18436572; ...
Xer Ping

Ping list for the discussion of the politics and social aspects that directly effects Generation Reagan / Generation-X (Those born from 1965-1981) including all the spending previous generations (i.e. The Baby Boomers) are doing that Gen-X and Y will end up paying for.

Freep mail me to be added or dropped. See my home page for details and previous articles.  

3 posted on 09/08/2004 4:57:05 PM PDT by qam1 (McGreevy likes his butts his way, I like mine my way - so NO SMOKING BANS in New Jersey)
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To: qam1
I would think SF would be somewhere near the bottom, if one is looking to date someone of the opposite gender.

("SF...somewhere near the bottom..." No pun intended.)

4 posted on 09/08/2004 4:57:29 PM PDT by My2Cents (http://www.conservativesforbush.com)
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To: qam1

columbus Ohio is so high because of OSU being in town....


5 posted on 09/08/2004 5:00:00 PM PDT by MikefromOhio (Free Republic - Only as "free" as those that post on it want it to be!!!)
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To: My2Cents

Sounds about right for Minneapolis. Still single, but fortunate that I basically fell into a large group of friends by chance. Especially since I work from home!


I would hate to be single and move here (Like I did) because this town is definately cliqueish


6 posted on 09/08/2004 5:00:47 PM PDT by MNlurker
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To: vikingchick
I can't believe Reno, NV is not on this list!!! LOL!

I bet it would be for singles over 30!!

7 posted on 09/08/2004 5:01:09 PM PDT by BossLady
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To: qam1

I just know Mrs. SV is going to be asking all kinds of questions about why I got pinged to this one.


8 posted on 09/08/2004 5:05:29 PM PDT by Straight Vermonter (http://www.angelfire.com/ultra/terroristscorecard)
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To: 3catsanadog; agrace; annyokie; Atlantin; Ayn Rand wannabe; Badray; Benrand; beyond the sea; ...
It's a 'Burgh


Thing.TM

Click for Pittsburgh International, Pennsylvania Forecast
Send FReepmail if you want on/off BPT list
Learn Pittsburghese!

WE'RE #73! WE'RE #73! < |:)~

9 posted on 09/08/2004 5:07:03 PM PDT by martin_fierro (A v v n c v l v s M a x i m v s)
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To: qam1

Oh, I dunno - Seattle is a great place to find a boyfriend...if you're a guy...


10 posted on 09/08/2004 5:07:49 PM PDT by Billthedrill
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To: RandallFlagg

add Glassboro NJ...uh wait, the phone is ringing, be right back...


11 posted on 09/08/2004 5:07:58 PM PDT by Sub-Driver
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To: MikeinIraq
columbus Ohio is so high because of OSU being in town....

True, but for us old folks (I'm 41) there is a ton of action. Between my first and second marriage I actually picked up a womam at Kroger. How Mid-Western middle class is that? LOL!

12 posted on 09/08/2004 5:08:54 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (Rick Nash will score 50 goals this season ( if there is a season)
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To: qam1
One of my best friends lives in Pensacola. He once told me it was a terrible city to meet girls. All those Naval aviators I guess.

Despite what he said, I always noticed he seemed to do very well. I also think the city has more than it's share of lookers.

13 posted on 09/08/2004 5:11:09 PM PDT by yarddog
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To: qam1

 

Why I never get a second date.

 

14 posted on 09/08/2004 5:13:32 PM PDT by Fintan (Oh...am I supposed to read the article???)
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To: qam1

Interesting list... I would've guess Houston to be higher up on the list... I never seem to have a problem meeting guys here. :)


15 posted on 09/08/2004 5:16:01 PM PDT by crystalclear9823
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To: qam1
Hmm, I'm not so sure this is an X-er ping. This article cites people aged 18-24. Someone 24 now was born in 1979 or 1980, barely Gen-X, if at all.

And regarding the article, give me a break, of course cities aren't good for these age groups, colleges and universities is where these people (18-24) should be! How about one that hits 24-40s singles?

16 posted on 09/08/2004 5:17:36 PM PDT by xrp (Executing assigned posting duties flawlessly -- ZERO mistakes)
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To: qam1

Honolulu scored 10th. Har! "Say where should we go," "Oh, I dunno, how about we LUXURIOUSLY LINGER AROUND FRICKIN' PARADISE!"


17 posted on 09/08/2004 5:18:46 PM PDT by dangus
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To: qam1

You know, it's funny......I used to live in pittsburgh and never had any trouble there (#73?). At the same time, this reinforces for me just how much living where I am is than there....;^p (that's south of MAcon, GA for y'all who don't know me) There's pretty much a lack of everything here.

oh, and the dating service thing is worthless unless you are near a major metropolitan center, for anyone else who is interested in reading this.

Boy, I am glad that I travel a lot for my job.


18 posted on 09/08/2004 5:22:49 PM PDT by musical_airman (Be an true American Patriot!! Make Beer!!!)
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To: Straight Vermonter
I just know Mrs. SV is going to be asking all kinds of questions about why I got pinged to this one.

Well you can quickly find 20 random threads and just Bump them to knock this out of your my comments screen. :-D

But I'm surprised Burlington isn't on the list, It's a fun little city (Well before the smoking ban sucked all the fun out of it).

19 posted on 09/08/2004 5:24:06 PM PDT by qam1 (McGreevy likes his butts his way, I like mine my way - so NO SMOKING BANS in New Jersey)
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To: qam1
So, if you’re a Pittsburgh single between 18-24 years old looking to “hook up” with someone your age, your chances are probably slim to none.


20 posted on 09/08/2004 5:25:19 PM PDT by ElkGroveDan (Santorum 2008)
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To: My2Cents

But given the large number of "new grad" type jobs here, it makes for a fairly active scene. One thing to note, which distorts this study, San Francisco, San Jose and Oakland are a single contiguous mass of concrete, saddling San Francisco Bay. So, for example, a person sitting in San Francisco or the suburbs near it will just as likely be dating someone in what they call "Oakland" or "San Jose." Back when I was of that age I quite literally lived in all three, depending on where I had my place at the time, and dated in all three. Strange that the number for "Oakland" is out of whack with "San Francisco" and "San Jose" (note these last two being nearly identical) - it sort of makes me suspect the whole thing.


21 posted on 09/08/2004 5:31:06 PM PDT by GOP_1900AD (Stomping on "PC," destroying the Left, and smoking out faux "conservatives" - Right makes right!)
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To: GOP_1900AD
Best and worst cities for dating...
22 posted on 09/08/2004 5:40:18 PM PDT by traumer
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#8 = Ann arbor Mi; lol, the "study" never bothered to check out the "talent" - not a pretty sight.


23 posted on 09/08/2004 5:40:24 PM PDT by Oystir
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To: My2Cents
"...I would think SF would be somewhere near the bottom, if one is looking to date someone of the opposite gender."

True, but look at the positve side of your equation. If you are bi-sexual, you double your chance to score on a Saturday Night!

24 posted on 09/08/2004 5:54:14 PM PDT by albee (yes!!)
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To: qam1
I am so surprised not to see an Alaskan City on the list.

It's a Long, Lonely Search for Men Looking for Love in Alaska

25 posted on 09/08/2004 5:59:56 PM PDT by thackney (life is fragile, handle with prayer)
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To: thackney

They say there are so few women in Alaska that you never lose your girlfriend you just lose your turn.


26 posted on 09/08/2004 6:05:08 PM PDT by pke
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To: musical_airman

You know what else is funny? I just realized that I think much faster than I type, and what I posted really doesn't make much sense at all. At least I know what I was thinking.


27 posted on 09/08/2004 6:06:58 PM PDT by musical_airman (Be an true American Patriot!! Make Beer!!!)
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To: musical_airman

And do you know what else is funny? Apparently I talk to myself!


28 posted on 09/08/2004 6:07:38 PM PDT by musical_airman (Be an true American Patriot!! Make Beer!!!)
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To: qam1

Lake City, FL = Worst. Dating. Scene. Ever.


31 posted on 09/08/2004 6:11:04 PM PDT by K1avg
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To: Straight Vermonter; qam1; martin_fierro

I just hope "She who has size 11 pumps", doesn't know I got pinged two times for this thread.


32 posted on 09/08/2004 6:22:34 PM PDT by Springman (Our 1st dated was Sept 11 1993)
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To: qam1

How the hell would I know? I spend all my time trying to get Illegals Deported, and looking for a job in Utah.

:)

Know the majority there is under 35...blonde and female....and not quite as much hair under the arms as in Oregon.

Enough for me. Besides, what's better than a rebelling Mormon girlfriend?

LOL


33 posted on 09/08/2004 6:35:49 PM PDT by 1_Inch_Group (The National Council of La Raza should be labeled a Terrorist Organization and treated accordingly)
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To: GOP_1900AD
Strange that the number for "Oakland" is out of whack with "San Francisco"

A's fans.

34 posted on 09/08/2004 6:53:26 PM PDT by My2Cents (http://www.conservativesforbush.com)
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To: My2Cents

Memphis TN is a great place to meet..can you say... large girls! Must be the fried foods, especially the fried peanut butter banana sandwiches!


35 posted on 09/08/2004 7:55:48 PM PDT by Sybeck1 (Kerry: how can we trust him with our money, if Teresa won't trust him with hers!)
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To: qam1

Being from KC, I can say it is not a very good place for dating since it is such a family oriented area. I was lukcy enough to find my wife there although.


36 posted on 09/08/2004 9:07:46 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator (This space outsourced to India)
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To: qam1

This sounds more like a press release for the dating services or even as an advertisement than a news story.

And what's this crap about not enough bars in Pittsburgh?

I think that Pittsburgh still has more bars, per capita, than ANY city in the country. Along with more bridges to jump from if you can't find a date or end up marrying the wrong one.


37 posted on 09/09/2004 2:59:00 AM PDT by Badray (Stay well - Stay safe - Stay armed - Yorktown. RIP harpseal.)
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