Any Pastor who does not counsel serious action when a spouse threatens to kill you or the children, is not worth their salt. When the spouse is pushing drugs on the children, again - serious action. With repeated actions, the more serious the consequences and the big "D" coupled with the law has to be one of them.
A Pastor that doesn't recognize Divorce for sexual repeated infidelity in the day of AIDs is not listening to the Lord or Scripture.
The liberals will allow divorce for any incompatibility and the ultraconservatives for none. Both extremes are to be avoided.
I agree.