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Challenging monogamy (Polyamorists fall in love with all they couple with)
Denver Post ^ | Jan 22 05 | Douglas Brown

Posted on 01/23/2005 8:03:29 PM PST by churchillbuff

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To: greeneyes23
"And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things." 2 Samuel 12:8.

In fact, it wasn't David's 7 wives that ticked JHVH off. That was fine and dandy. It wasn't until David covetted another mans wife that it was considered a "sin".

Moses had more than one wife. Solomon. Ezra. Esau. The list goes on.

41 posted on 01/24/2005 6:47:44 AM PST by Dead Corpse (Cum catapultae proscriptae erunt tum soli proscript catapultas habebunt.)
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To: Dead Corpse

True, but in just about every instance it caused trouble later.


42 posted on 01/24/2005 11:09:00 AM PST by formercalifornian (Daschle b-gone!)
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To: churchillbuff

They keep talking about "commitment." Commitment to what exactly? "You keep using that word. I do no' think it means what you think it means." -- Inigo Montoya


43 posted on 01/24/2005 11:10:41 AM PST by formercalifornian (Daschle b-gone!)
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To: churchillbuff
"None of my partners meets all of my needs," says Botinelly, a gaunt computer programmer with small oval glasses who looks like Woody Allen with long gray hair.

Gee, he sounds like a looker.

44 posted on 01/24/2005 11:14:59 AM PST by retrokitten
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To: churchillbuff
Some studies, she says, show that testosterone levels in men spike when their wives have sex with other men.

I'm not a man, but I would wager that's because they are getting ready to kick that guys ass.

45 posted on 01/24/2005 11:21:15 AM PST by retrokitten
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To: formercalifornian

Sometimes even one wife is trouble...I have a friend who is waiting for a comet to hit him..


46 posted on 01/24/2005 1:18:37 PM PST by sheik yerbouty
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To: churchillbuff

Some tribal cultures do practice polyamory, but it's rarer than polygamy. Polygamy goes back to the time of the Old Testament patriarchs.


47 posted on 01/24/2005 1:34:02 PM PST by A Ruckus of Dogs
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To: sheik yerbouty
I'm just curious about one thing. When did the Bible outlaw polygamy?

It's outlawed explicitly in the New Testament (every man should have his own wife and vice versa or something like that). I don't think it's outlawed in the Old Testament since a lot of thos patriarchs had more than one wife. Does anyone know if Judaism specifically prohibits polygamy?

48 posted on 01/24/2005 1:39:25 PM PST by A Ruckus of Dogs
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To: A Ruckus of Dogs

A Rabbi Gershom issued a thousand year ban around the tenth century.


49 posted on 01/24/2005 5:03:08 PM PST by sheik yerbouty
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To: Lesforlife
This drivel took the place of coverage of the Colorado Right to Life March for Life which drew over 1,000 attendees. Although a lovely photo of our 100 white dove release appeared, there was no article - merely a 3 sentence description of the gathering.

You should lead an effort to get everyone one of the 1,000 attendees to call and write the paper. There are finally chinks appearing in the MSM's armor. Attack. Fight the bias. Given the CBS fiasco, the timing is perfect, and issues like this are perfect because the bias is so blatant, so undeniable and indefensible.

MM

50 posted on 01/24/2005 5:12:30 PM PST by MississippiMan (Americans should not be sacrificed on the altar of political correctness.)
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To: churchillbuff

'Open marriage' by another name. The situations I am familiar with wound up with really messed up kids. Totally disfunctional situation.


51 posted on 01/24/2005 5:17:54 PM PST by Tench_Coxe
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To: churchillbuff
Critics, though, denounce the practice as immoral, and in opposition to the laws of nature

It's his right to state an opinion on "immoral," but in looking at the rest of nature it seems that monogamy is the rarity, the one that may be going against the laws of nature.

52 posted on 02/02/2005 6:36:05 AM PST by antiRepublicrat
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To: MisterRepublican
Oh, now there's a shock!

Why? I know a monogamous pagan couple that's already way past the national average in length of marriage.

53 posted on 02/02/2005 6:38:11 AM PST by antiRepublicrat
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To: Tench_Coxe
'Open marriage' by another name.

Not exactly. I had friends who tried an open marriage against my advice, and it ruined them. But that was sex outside the marriage with different people, basically a license to cheat.

In this case we're talking polyamory, basically one big marriage, everybody loving the other as husband and wife, and in this case wife and wife. Notice this one didn't dissolve until someone cheated -- went outside the marriage -- just like in a real marriage.

Still, are they out of their minds? Especially when children are involved!

54 posted on 02/02/2005 6:47:27 AM PST by antiRepublicrat
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To: churchillbuff

Lord have mercy, are these folks self-centered, or what? It doesn't matter what it does to anyone else as long as it feels good to them.


55 posted on 02/02/2005 6:56:43 AM PST by SuziQ
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To: beaversmom

LOL! The "head chimp" looks a lot like Marshall Applewhite. ;)


56 posted on 02/02/2005 7:00:31 AM PST by Mr. Jeeves
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To: antiRepublicrat
It's his right to state an opinion on "immoral," but in looking at the rest of nature it seems that monogamy is the rarity, the one that may be going against the laws of nature.

You're right. Polyamory (or at least, serial monogamy) is probably the way we are designed to operate, biologically. Culturally, though, it causes all sorts of difficult problems.

57 posted on 02/02/2005 7:02:26 AM PST by Mr. Jeeves
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To: churchillbuff
None of my partners meets all of my needs," says Botinelly
58 posted on 02/02/2005 7:49:23 AM PST by Juana la Loca
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