Well, because she's an attractive blond woman, let's give her a pass for sexually abusing a 13 year old.
If it were a man with a 13 year old girl, that would be different. Somehow.
Society does view it different but I get your point.
I know why say a 28 year old male teacher might like a 16 year old but why do women that age pant for young teen boys?
Because it really is different somehow. Men and women are different.