Dear BibChr,
I don't know, I don't really see the problem. Why not let the two ladies marry each other? Consenting adults and all that...
I'm trying to interest my wife in a second wife. The three of us would be very happy together. And very committed.
Mr. and Mrs. and Mrs. Sitetest.
sitetest
Don't you think you should shack up with the second wife first, just to try out the relationship?
That way, if it doesn't work, you can just try other women until you find Mrs. Other Right.
Shalom.