If they want "martyrdom", fine. We'll give it to them. If they leave us alone, they'll be afforded the same courtesy. When you talk about "Muslims", it's important to remember that this doesn't magically exclude Afghanis, Iraqis, and Iranian rebels. These are our friends. No need to infuriate them.
NO one who calls themselves a Muslim is my friend. NO one. They may be LESS of an enemy- for now- but call someone who believes what Islam is a 'friend'? Not I.
I am not compatible with anyone who belongs to a death cult from the 10th century any more than I would be with a neanderthal.
You may designate your friends however you choose.
I will never consider any Muslim my friend, or the friend of my country.
Never.
Just so you don't feel isolated by the more 'extreme' elements that have popped up on this thread, I agree.