"Grief turns to blame. What stage is that?"
Let's see, there's:
Shock...
Denial...
Anger...
Bargaining...
Acceptance...
My vote is on the "anger" stage. Just like most liberal moonbats, they get STUCK in the anger stage and simply refuse to move on (or grow as a person).
denial's in there, too. I'm not sure stages are quite that discreet.