How many kids have you adopted, again? Ever considered the chance that both things (IVF and adoption) were in the pipeline?
EVERY time a blessed pregnancy occurs, the dice is rolled. If you read the results of the study it says that there are 29 per as opposed to 43 with IVF. Are you willing to castigate the parents of the 29? Oh, that's right.......they did it naturally.
Sanctimonius twit.
That is disengenuous and you know it.
The chances of birth defect is SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER -- this study even says so (the same is true for much older people creating kids).
It wasn't YOUR dice you were rolling. It was someone else's.
My anaylsis is apt,. my personal decisions notithstanding. Like I said, when I was adjudged shooting blanks, I saw the handwriting on the wall and decided that making another me wasn't that important. I looked at the data of the time and decided that creating a child who had a high probability to have a defect would be a bad thing to do.
I am sure you love your kids -- but you may have already condemnded them or their children to problems down the road. On purpose. For no other reason than because you wanted to make another you.
That is why I will pray for them.