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"After reading all of the crap that people have been saying regarding Adult Private Social Clubs, I felt that I had to post an article and give my opinion."

Glad you decided to come here and embarrass yourself.

"I am sick and tired of all the religous groups that are saying that there are drugs, prostitution, minors, non-consenting people, and just immoral people at these clubs!"

Umm, having sex with multiple people who are NOT your spouse and who just might have diseases isn't immoral?

"First of all, who do these people think they are to decide what is morally right or wrong for me? I believe that I have a good set of morals."

You have a 'right' to spread disease?

"I am a law abiding, tax paying citizen, I work full time and provide for my child; whom I teach to be courteous, respect his elders, be a hard worker, have respect for all of humankind as well as the earth, and not to 'cram' his opinions and beliefs down other people's throats."

Abiding laws grants you the right to spread diseases?

" Don't get me wrong, I'm not bashing christianity, it's just that I'm so sick and tired of others trying to decide what is 'morally acceptable' for me. "

I'm sick of people making excuses for behavior that is morally and HEALTHFULLY repugnant and dangerous.

"These people need to have their facts straight before running off at the mouth! And yes, I do belong to a several 'Swing Clubs', so I DO KNOW what I'm talking about."

Ah yes, the old "If you don't do it yourself, you don't understand" saw.
If you have a disease, do you tell your partners?
I bet you don't tell them.

"First of all, NO ONE UNDER THE AGE OF 21 IS ADMITTED (clubs do check id)!, no drugs are tolerated........no exceptions!"

If people want into a club, they will find a way.
And I'm willing to bet that your claim of 'nobody under 21' and no drugs is not totally true of all swing clubs.

", there is no prostitution!"

There is no spoon!

", safe sex is highly encouraged, NO MEANS NO...ie...club owners and managers DO NOT tolerate anyone getting out of line what so ever!"

"Encouraged" but not required.

", and many club members are good and decent people with the best of morals."

Oh yeah, Bubba the psychopathic rapist murderer was a good and decent fellow, as long as he wasn't in the mood for a little 'snack'.
But he had the best of morals!

"In short, no one is making these religous people go to the clubs, so, they need to quit trying to close the Adult Private Social Clubs."

Funny how intolerant you are of the religious.
But you sure want them to tolerate you.

" What goes on inside of these clubs is perfectly legal."

And doctor assisted murder is perfectly legal in some places.
Doesn't make it right.

"We're not imposing our way of life on ANYONE, so others need to quit imposing their way of life on all of us!"

Really?
You sure want to be tolerated but you don't want to tolerate others.

I feel sorry for women who need to find their pleasure and self worth through their sexual talents or sexual "openness"

Sure- she is probably embraced by her swinger friends right now... she thinks she is "moral"

but one day- this will all fade, reality will set in...

I love the- I don't break the law- therefore I am moral...LOL!

I was once devastated at the thought of entering the single world again... whow could I possibly find a man "WILLING" to wait for marriage?

then I realized that I don't want a man "WILLING" to wait... I want a man that "WANTS" to wait for marriage...

I have no desire to shut down her club...nor make it illegal....

I am not nearly as INTOLERANT as she thinks....

I merely want to see people be honest.

Honest about how rules and morality are there to protect us, and how they DO protect us... We are not out to DESTROY fun... we actually want people to HAVE FUN and ENJOY LIFE...

hard to enjoy life when children are the collateral damage of such "Law abiding fun."