Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

story of a muslim: We were brought up to hate -- and we do.
telegraph.co.uk ^ | 12 feb | Nonie Darwish

Posted on 02/19/2006 9:34:05 AM PST by S0122017

We were brought up to hate -- and we do.

The controversy regarding the Danish cartoons of the Prophet Mohammed completely misses the point. Of course, the cartoons are offensive to Muslims, but newspaper cartoons do not warrant the burning of buildings and the killing of innocent people. The cartoons did not cause the disease of hate that we are seeing in the Muslim world on our television screens at night -- they are only a symptom of a far greater disease.

I was born and raised as a Muslim in Cairo, Egypt and in the Gaza Strip. In the 1950s, my father was sent by Egypt's President, Gamal Abdel Nasser, to head the Egyptian military intelligence in Gaza and the Sinai where he founded the Palestinian Fedayeen, or "armed resistance". They made cross-border attacks into Israel, killing 400 Israelis and wounding more than 900 others.

My father was killed as a result of the Fedayeen operations when I was eight years old. He was hailed by Nasser as a national hero and was considered a shaheed, or martyr. In his speech announcing the nationalization of the Suez Canal, Nasser vowed that all of Egypt would take revenge for my father's death. My siblings and I were asked by Nasser: "Which one of you will avenge your father's death by killing Jews?" We looked at each other speechless, unable to answer.

In school in Gaza, I learned hate, vengeance and retaliation. Peace was never an option, as it was considered a sign of defeat and weakness. At school we sang songs with verses calling Jews "dogs" (in Arab culture, dogs are considered unclean).

Criticism and questioning were forbidden. When I did either of these, I was told: "Muslims cannot love the enemies of God, and those who do will get no mercy in hell." As a young woman, I visited a Christian friend in Cairo during Friday prayers, and we both heard the verbal attacks on Christians and Jews from the loudspeakers outside the mosque. They said: "May God destroy the infidels and the Jews, the enemies of God. We are not to befriend them or make treaties with them." We heard worshippers respond "Amen."

My friend looked scared; I was ashamed. That was when I first realized that something was very wrong in the way my religion was taught and practiced. Sadly, the way I was raised was not unique. Hundreds of millions of other Muslims also have been raised with the same hatred of the West and Israel as a way to distract from the failings of their leaders. Things have not changed since I was a little girl in the 1950s.

Palestinian television extols terrorists, and textbooks still deny the existence of Israel. More than 300 Palestinians schools are named after shaheeds, including my father. Roads in both Egypt and Gaza still bear his name -- as they do of other "martyrs." What sort of message does that send about the role of terrorists? That they are heroes. Leaders who signed peace treaties, such as President Anwar Sadat, have been assassinated. Today, the Islamo-fascist president of Iran uses nuclear dreams, Holocaust denials and threats to "wipe Israel off the map" as a way to maintain control of his divided country.

We Arabs must stop allowing our leaders to use the West and Israel as an excuse to distract from their own failed leadership and their citizens' lack of freedoms.

Indeed, with Denmark set to assume the rotating presidency of the UN Security Council, the flames of the cartoon controversy have been fanned by Iran and Syria. This is critical since the International Atomic Energy Agency is expected to refer Iran to the Security Council and demand sanctions. At the same time, Syria is under scrutiny for its actions in Lebanon. Both Iran and Syria cynically want to embarrass the Danes to achieve their dangerous goals.

But the rallies and riots come from a public ripe with rage. From my childhood in Gaza until today, blaming Israel and the West has been an industry in the Muslim world. Whenever peace seemed attainable, Palestinian leaders found groups who would do everything to sabotage it. They allowed their people to be used as the front line of Arab jihad. Dictators in countries surrounding the Palestinians were only too happy to exploit the Palestinians as a diversion from problems in their own backyards. The only voice outside of government control in these areas has been the mosques, and these places of worship have been filled with talk of jihad.

Is it any surprise that after decades of indoctrination in a culture of hate that people actually do hate? Arab society has created a system of relying on fear of a common enemy. It's a system that has brought them much-needed unity, cohesion and compliance in a region ravaged by tribal feuds, instability, violence, and selfish corruption. So Arab leaders blame Jews and Christians rather than provide good schools, roads, hospitals, housing, jobs, or hope to their people.

For 30 years I lived inside this war zone of oppressive dictatorships and police states. Citizens competed to appease and glorify their dictators, but they looked the other way when Muslims tortured and terrorized other Muslims. I witnessed honor killings of girls, oppression of women, female genital mutilation, polygamy and its devastating effect on family relations. All of this is destroying the Muslim faith from within.

It's time for Arabs and Muslims to stand up for their families. We must stop allowing our leaders to use the West and Israel as an excuse to distract from their own failed leadership and their citizens' lack of freedoms. It's time to stop allowing Arab leaders to complain about cartoons while turning a blind eye to people who defame Islam by holding Korans in one hand while murdering innocent people with the other.

Muslims need jobs -- not jihad. Apologies about cartoons will not solve the problems. What is needed is hope and not hate. Unless we recognize that the culture of hate is the true root of the riots surrounding this cartoon controversy, this violent overreaction will only be the start of a clash of civilizations that the world cannot bear.

This article originally appeared in The Daily Telegraph


TOPICS: Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events; Philosophy; War on Terror
KEYWORDS: 2crazy4thefuture; arab; hate; islam; islamicpsychos; muslim; muslimviolence; palestinian; psychoislam; psychoreligion; religionofhate; rop; terror; trop; violentmuslims; westbank; wot
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-2021-4041-6061-63 next last
To: S0122017
Muslim terrorism goes back as far as our knowledge of history. With our memories, instead of putting them out of their millenia-old misery, we're doomed to repeat the mistakes of our ancestors.




41 posted on 02/19/2006 10:22:58 AM PST by Lady Jag ( All I want is a kind word, a warm bed, and world domination)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Bigg Red

Islam may gradually change, it has been in the dark ages till now.

Now all of a sudden they get foreign broadcasts and other ideas and freedom they never had!

The look at their leaders and their leaders demonise the west in order to stop them from defecting.


42 posted on 02/19/2006 10:24:04 AM PST by S0122017
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 37 | View Replies]

Comment #43 Removed by Moderator

To: S0122017

First time posting!

Glad to be where the intelligent posts are many!


44 posted on 02/19/2006 10:27:27 AM PST by purpleporter
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 42 | View Replies]

To: S0122017
In school in Gaza, I learned hate, vengeance and retaliation.

Rachel Corrie teaching the little children.


45 posted on 02/19/2006 10:29:10 AM PST by Polybius
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: S0122017
Indeed, with Denmark set to assume the rotating presidency of the UN Security Council, the flames of the cartoon controversy have been fanned by Iran and Syria.

This should be an interesting event for the ROP to show the world more of their real intentions.

46 posted on 02/19/2006 10:30:01 AM PST by GlennLivett
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: S0122017

"Captain, the Muslim creatures claim the cartoons are greatly offensive. Baloney Sir..I see you have baloney in your hand."

47 posted on 02/19/2006 10:31:17 AM PST by Screamname (Tagline)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Polybius

I love that pic...You ever see such a confused look on a group of kids before in your life? Like they are saying "What the hell is this stupid white broad doing?"


48 posted on 02/19/2006 10:39:06 AM PST by Screamname (Tagline)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 45 | View Replies]

To: purpleporter

Welcome aboard.


49 posted on 02/19/2006 10:41:21 AM PST by Lady Jag ( All I want is a kind word, a warm bed, and world domination)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 44 | View Replies]

To: S0122017
Hundreds of millions of other Muslims also have been raised with the same hatred of the West and Israel as a way to distract from the failings of their leaders.

BINGO.

50 posted on 02/19/2006 10:43:47 AM PST by agrace (Where were you when I founded the earth? Tell me if you know so much. Job 38:4)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: S0122017
Dictators in countries surrounding the Palestinians were only too happy to exploit the Palestinians as a diversion from problems in their own backyards.

That needs a BIG BUMP!!!

51 posted on 02/19/2006 10:46:02 AM PST by SuziQ
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Polybius
Rachel Corrie teaching the little children.

Too bad for her her message fell flat.

52 posted on 02/19/2006 10:51:39 AM PST by isthisnickcool (Jack Bauer: "By the time I'm finished with you you're going to wish you felt this good again".)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 45 | View Replies]

To: GOPJ
It would be as if we celebrated Sherman, but not Lincoln, Charles Manson, but not Thomas Jefferson.

Are these comparisons supposed to be analagous?

53 posted on 02/19/2006 11:58:24 AM PST by KayEyeDoubleDee (const Tag &referenceToConstTag)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 29 | View Replies]

To: S0122017

ping ..


54 posted on 02/19/2006 12:24:54 PM PST by LM_Guy
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: twigs
How do you see Islam going away?

Same as Nazism (other than the skinhead clubs, it's dead) - eventually the Normal World will recognize membership to be per se evil and will exorcise it from society.

I think we're finally at the point where the Moos can't pass their deathcult off as anything approaching valid religion. Except for George Bush and Condi Rice, we've got 'em figured out.

55 posted on 02/19/2006 12:47:53 PM PST by Hank Rearden (Never allow anyone who could only get a government "job" attempt to tell you how to run your life.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 30 | View Replies]

To: StarFan; Dutchy; alisasny; BobFromNJ; BUNNY2003; Cacique; Clemenza; Coleus; cyborg; DKNY; ...
ping! (Thanks for the heads up on this one, Bigg Red)

Please FReepmail me if you want on or off my ‘miscellaneous’ ping list.

56 posted on 02/19/2006 10:06:42 PM PST by nutmeg (NEVER trust democRATs with our national security)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 36 | View Replies]

To: S0122017

A good start would be to renounce the Death Cult of Mohammedanism, put down the Korans and start getting serious about what in this life truly is real.


57 posted on 02/19/2006 10:12:38 PM PST by DoNotDivide (Romans 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: seastay
Is this true? If so, there is something far more sinister with the timing and the fanning of the flames

It is true. And that it was Syria and Iran who did the most to fan the flames is instructive. They were surely aware of the rotation.

I expect the affair will have steeled the Dane's resolve.

58 posted on 02/19/2006 10:15:57 PM PST by okie01 (The Mainstream Media: IGNORANCE ON PARADE)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 26 | View Replies]

To: nutmeg

I've read this before. It's an excellent article, thanks.


59 posted on 02/19/2006 10:19:30 PM PST by Victoria Delsoul
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 56 | View Replies]

To: S0122017

How can an entire culture be rehabed?


60 posted on 02/19/2006 10:22:09 PM PST by Peelod (Decentia est fragilis. Curatoribus validis indiget.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-2021-4041-6061-63 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson