You are blessed. My awakening came many years ago. It is tough to live with truths to many sherk with their very being at not wanting to accept. But as some notable figures throughout history have devulged, knowledge has a price.
The price I pay, though I am in no way notable, is screaming fits directed at the TV or video monitor.
Thank your nephew for his service for me. My Army Son-in-Law just got back from his tour. He will be getting a Purple Heart and maybe something else (so the Army says) but he did get another rocker to 1st Sgt. And to top it off he got a son during his tour.