In the real world contraception is accepted. I, along with most others, just don't believe that there is a sentient soul involved at all.
I understand your belief, but my suspicions tell me it is held for utilitarian reasons (makes you feel better). Common sense and science both tell us that life is a dynamic continuum with a beginning and an end, but no sharp "steps" or "jumps".
You will be held accountable one day - and look into the faces of your children that you never met this side of eternity.
Bandwagon fallacy.
I, along with most others, just don't believe that there is a sentient soul involved at all.
What you "just believe" isn't persuasive to me at all. My conscience isn't bound by your opinions.