Oh great, now the woman is a child abuser.
Look, just because we were raised to a particular standard, doesn't mean that she is stupid, or slutty. She mentioned that they were engaged, for what reason I don't know. Maybe she's embarassed for being abandoned after all that time. Technically she is married to him byway of common law. She probably doesn't know this, as she didn't know that the debit card was activated upon receipt : (
Why are we analyzing this woman? Why the personal attacks on a complete stranger?
She wasn't when she made her first baby with him. It also happens that Florida hasn't recognized common-law marriages since 1968, so technically they were not common-law married at any point in time.
Technically she is married to him byway of common law.
Technically she is not, per Florida statute section 741.211.
Maybe she's embarassed for being abandoned after all that time.
Embarrassment didn't stop her from finding at least one other man to make babies with. A person with a half a brain would say, "Gee, if my 'fiancé' would dump me after ten years or so, maybe I shouldn't be opening my knees to another baby-maker without a wedding ring?"