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To: digger48
Yes, if only there were a word for boys who can't keep it in their pants until they've said the vows. Oh, wait. There are -- stud, chip off the old block, Ladies Man, Don Juan....

Are we ever going to get past the double-standard, men who want their daughters to remain virgins, but their sons, they give a wink and a nudge?

Frankly, I see a lot of the responsibility in the man's court. Be fathers to your daughters, so they don't go looking for love elsewhere. Show them what it's like to be valued, respected and treated like a lady, so that they expect no less from their future mate. Demonstrate your own high moral standards by refusing to put yourself in compromising situations with a woman who is not your wife. Teach your sons that chastity is not just for women. Be men, and exercise self-control.

If you can't do those things, then don't you dare start hurling invectives at the women. There has never been a whore, slut or harlot who became one on her own.

27 posted on 05/13/2006 3:57:44 PM PDT by Chanticleer (Courage is not simply one of the virtues but the form of every virtue at the testing point. Lewis)
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To: Chanticleer

your words, not mine


36 posted on 05/13/2006 4:05:43 PM PDT by digger48
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To: Chanticleer

FWIW.... I raised (on my own for 16 years) the only 2 children I ever sired in this life.

Both my children, Boy 25, girl 21, are both single and CHILDLESS, by their own choice.

So yes, under your terms, I do have standing.


38 posted on 05/13/2006 4:11:36 PM PDT by digger48
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To: Chanticleer
Are we ever going to get past the double-standard, men who want their daughters to remain virgins, but their sons, they give a wink and a nudge?

Well, I'm not a betting man but usually I go with the fastest and the biggest. So in this case I'll go with a couple of million years of evolution and go with 'Not in your lifetime, or mine, or any of my descendants.' Two generations of FemLib does even make a punctuation mark in this story. Best to get over it.

46 posted on 05/13/2006 4:28:33 PM PDT by SandwicheGuy (*The butter acts as a lubricant and speeds up the CPU*)
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