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Astonishing 'Confession' from former NJ Gov. (Gay sex trysts in 'bookstores and rest stops')
7Online.com ^ | 5/21/06 | Jeff Rossen

Posted on 05/22/2006 10:19:35 AM PDT by LdSentinal

Gay sex trysts in 'bookstores and rest stops'

(New York-WABC, May 21, 2006) - It was the announcement that caught the attention of the nation. Jim McGreevey, Governor of New Jersey, husband, and father, telling the world he was gay and involved in an extra marital affair with a man. 21 months later, the former governor is going public again with a book titled "The Confession."

This is a tell-all book in every sense of the word. Former Governor Jim McGreevey doesn't appear to hold anything back. In the book, he writes about his life as a gay man in power and how he lied to everyone. The book comes out in September. The publisher just released 16-pages of excerpts.

"The truth is that I am a gay American," said former New Jersey Governor Jim McGreevey in August of 2004.

It was a personal truth aired in public. Now, McGreevey goes even further. In his new book, "The Confession", McGreevey speaks about meeting anonymous men at rest stops for sexual trysts. "As the years went on," McGreevey writes, "I became as avid a womanizer as anybody else on the New Jersey political scene, but my attraction was largely artificial. My sexual performance a triumph of mind over matter."

This is a tell-all book in every sense of the word. Former Governor Jim McGreevey doesn't appear to hold anything back. In the book, he writes about his life as a gay man in power and how he lied to everyone. The book comes out in September. The publisher released 16-pages of excerpts at a book expo in Washington D.C. Saturday. McGreevey made his first public appearance since the summer of 2004 at the expo.

McGreevey writes, "As glorious and meaningful as it would have been to have a loving and sound sexual relationship with another man, I knew I'd have to undo my happiness step by step as I began chasing my dream of a public career and the kind of 'acceptable' life that went with it. So instead, I settled for the detached anonymity of bookstores and rest stops. A compromise, but one that was wholly unfulfilling and morally unsatisfactory."

In the excerpts, McGreevey doesn't say when the encounters started. Nor does he mention his two marriages to women. He comes off as a man in great pain, in great conflict. "I knew I would have to lie for the rest of my life, and I knew I was capable of it," he writes. "The knowledge gave me a feeling of terrible power."

McGreevey will get $500,000 for writing the book and he's already a scheduled guest on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" for his first interview since the announcement. That interview will air next fall during Oprah Winfrey's new season right here on Channel 7.


TOPICS: News/Current Events; Politics/Elections; US: New Jersey
KEYWORDS: book; confession; disgusting; gay; governor; homosexualagenda; immoral; liar; mcgreevery; newjersey; perverted
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1 posted on 05/22/2006 10:19:37 AM PDT by LdSentinal
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To: LdSentinal
In his new book, "The Confession", McGreevey speaks about meeting anonymous men at rest stops for sexual trysts.

Note to self: Add NJ as another state along with MA, that I will not stop at restops in..

2 posted on 05/22/2006 10:22:04 AM PDT by cardinal4 (Kerry-Mcarthy in 2008!)
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To: LdSentinal

This guy's presidential material for the democrats.


3 posted on 05/22/2006 10:22:22 AM PDT by Ron in Acreage (Liberal Democrats-Party before country, surrender before victory, generous with other peoples money.)
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To: LdSentinal

Boo hoo. Woe is me. I'm just a victim. Excuse me while I puke my guts out.


4 posted on 05/22/2006 10:22:34 AM PDT by AlaskaErik (Everyone should have a subject they are ignorant about. I choose professional corporate sports.)
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To: LdSentinal

Too much information!!!!!!!!


5 posted on 05/22/2006 10:23:01 AM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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To: LdSentinal

The question, Is he lying Now or was he lying then?...........


6 posted on 05/22/2006 10:23:15 AM PDT by Red Badger (Liberals ignore criminal behavior, reward sloth and revere incompetence...........)
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To: LdSentinal

For some reason, I just don't think this tome has the staying power or inspiration of St. Augustine's "Confessions".


7 posted on 05/22/2006 10:23:18 AM PDT by JeeperFreeper
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To: LdSentinal
"I knew I would have to lie for the rest of my life, and I knew I was capable of it," he writes.

Perfect Rat material.

8 posted on 05/22/2006 10:24:22 AM PDT by AlaskaErik (Everyone should have a subject they are ignorant about. I choose professional corporate sports.)
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To: LdSentinal

Ick. His poor wife. Ex-wife, I assume.


9 posted on 05/22/2006 10:24:27 AM PDT by prion (Yes, as a matter of fact, I AM the spelling police)
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To: LdSentinal
"I knew I would have to lie for the rest of my life, and I knew I was capable of it," he writes.

That's what made him a great politician.... while it lasted!!

10 posted on 05/22/2006 10:24:32 AM PDT by NotJustAnotherPrettyFace
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To: LdSentinal
Hey, a half a million bucks for notoriety. He already earned it when he came out of the closet. Do we really need to hear the details of McGreevey's sexual conquests? He clearly has issues to work out. But he should spare us the need to air his dirty linen in public.

(Denny Crane: "Every one should carry a gun strapped to their waist. We need more - not less guns.")

11 posted on 05/22/2006 10:24:56 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: LdSentinal
See also: MCGREEVEY'S GAY ROAD THRILL

and

Excerpts tell of McGreevey's personal torment

12 posted on 05/22/2006 10:25:03 AM PDT by Paddlefish ("Why should I have to WORK for everything?! It's like saying I don't deserve it!")
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To: cardinal4

"In his new book, "The Confession", McGreevey speaks about meeting anonymous men at rest stops for sexual trysts."

He's a homo. That's what homos do.


13 posted on 05/22/2006 10:25:25 AM PDT by L98Fiero (I'm worth a million in prizes.)
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To: LdSentinal

Gee. Seems a little self-centered, doesn't he? Pretty standard for both his professional and private lifestyles...


15 posted on 05/22/2006 10:27:10 AM PDT by atomicpossum (Replies must follow approved guidelines or you will be kill-filed without appeal.)
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To: Red Badger

"Is he lying Now or was he lying then?"

Yes.

And, something about the anonymous sex claim strikes a strange note, too. A governor, anonymous? Do I just not understand this sort of thing? I'd think he would have been blackmailed into bankruptcy. Methinks he's giving himself cover for some reason. Male prostitutes?


16 posted on 05/22/2006 10:27:47 AM PDT by RegulatorCountry
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To: LdSentinal
I don't think the gay community is going to like the seedy side their lifestyle choice being exposed.
17 posted on 05/22/2006 10:28:04 AM PDT by be4everfree
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To: LdSentinal

Do not click on link unless you want to be hijacked by some weirdo pointing to his breast!


18 posted on 05/22/2006 10:28:05 AM PDT by thegreatbeast (Quid lucrum istic mihi est?)
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To: LdSentinal

19 posted on 05/22/2006 10:28:23 AM PDT by CollegeRepublican
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To: LdSentinal
Wonder if Oprah will cancel his appearance on her show.

Seems to be this book is thinly veiled porno. Nothing more.

20 posted on 05/22/2006 10:28:24 AM PDT by OldFriend (I Pledge Allegiance to the Flag.....and My Heart to the Soldier Who Protects It.)
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To: prion

This scum has married twice, father two little girls.


21 posted on 05/22/2006 10:29:03 AM PDT by OldFriend (I Pledge Allegiance to the Flag.....and My Heart to the Soldier Who Protects It.)
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To: CollegeRepublican

Who is that portly individual?


22 posted on 05/22/2006 10:31:11 AM PDT by Disambiguator (Unfettered gun ownership is the highest expression of civil rights.)
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To: Ron in Acreage
This guy's presidential material for the democrats.

He could run with Mark Morford in 08.

23 posted on 05/22/2006 10:31:38 AM PDT by darkangel82
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To: OldFriend

Not that there is anything wrong with that.


24 posted on 05/22/2006 10:32:11 AM PDT by Patrick1
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To: Disambiguator

He is the actor who plays a gay mafioso on the Sopranos.


25 posted on 05/22/2006 10:32:23 AM PDT by CollegeRepublican
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To: LdSentinal

Why doesn't he try confessing to a priest and not practice self-exhibitionism with the public?


26 posted on 05/22/2006 10:32:36 AM PDT by Unam Sanctam
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To: Paddlefish

"I studied the moves, figured out what worked and what didn't, practiced and perfected my perfect inauthenticity," he wrote.

New definition?
democrat: one who has perfected perfect inauthenticity


27 posted on 05/22/2006 10:33:03 AM PDT by rit
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To: LdSentinal

Good grief, I hope this clown doesn't have kids.

If so, tell me again how this is in their best interests?


28 posted on 05/22/2006 10:33:25 AM PDT by mad puppy ( The Southern border is THE issue)
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To: LdSentinal
Bookstores? Where?

This is a classic case of transferring blame from the guilty to the innocent. Our culture eats this stuff up. No one is every guilty of their own misdeeds. No, in this case it is the fault of all those who insist society hold to traditional moral standards.

29 posted on 05/22/2006 10:34:03 AM PDT by The Ghost of FReepers Past (Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light..... Isaiah 5:20)
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To: LdSentinal

"McGreevey will get $500,000 for writing the book"

yep he is cashing in on this. What should be a complete embarassment and disgrace he will now make his cashcow.
this puke makes me sick - as do most Dems


30 posted on 05/22/2006 10:35:13 AM PDT by DM1
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To: mad puppy

The book should be titled "Brokeback Governor"


31 posted on 05/22/2006 10:35:30 AM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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To: RegulatorCountry
I think he's angling for a movie deal..........Brokeback Governor.......
32 posted on 05/22/2006 10:36:28 AM PDT by Red Badger (Liberals ignore criminal behavior, reward sloth and revere incompetence...........)
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To: prion
Ick. His poor wife. Ex-wife, I assume.

I wonder if she has political aspirations. Like maybe Senator of NY or something.

33 posted on 05/22/2006 10:37:27 AM PDT by DungeonMaster
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To: LdSentinal
So after he came out, this "revelation" is something no one expected???

Another person to not, DO NOT stop at NJ rest stops, not that I did anyway!! If I need gas or a bathroom, I make sure I get it before I get to NJ, or after leaving it. Even avoid NJ altogether if possible!
34 posted on 05/22/2006 10:38:20 AM PDT by gidget7 (PC is the huge rock, behind which lies hide!)
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To: LdSentinal

I don't think those pushing the homo "marriage" agenda want the anonymous sodomy thing out in the open. Homo "marriage" is supposed to be just like true marriage. So McGreevey is doing us all a favor. Well, all of us except the children. Children will be harmed by hearing about McGreevey's anguish over his "difficult decision," anonymous rest stop sodomy and frequent media expressions of "not that there's anything wrong with that."


35 posted on 05/22/2006 10:39:02 AM PDT by Aquinasfan (When you find "Sola Scriptura" in the Bible, let me know)
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To: LdSentinal

In his new book did he confess that he was Governor of New Jersey?

This book is an overshare.


36 posted on 05/22/2006 10:39:53 AM PDT by lone star annie
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To: mad puppy
He's got two daughters. One from each wife. How sad and pathetic.

The man has no honor at all, NONE!

37 posted on 05/22/2006 10:40:01 AM PDT by OldFriend (I Pledge Allegiance to the Flag.....and My Heart to the Soldier Who Protects It.)
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To: Individual Rights in NJ

Were a guy in that position, and had no choice but to pee, I think I'd opt to find a tree!!


38 posted on 05/22/2006 10:40:01 AM PDT by gidget7 (PC is the huge rock, behind which lies hide!)
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To: LdSentinal

Too much information!


39 posted on 05/22/2006 10:40:15 AM PDT by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: LdSentinal
The truth is that I am a gay American

No, the truth is you are a sick pervert. Only weirdo's have anonymous sex in retail stores and interstate rest stops.

This is, of course, one of the inconvenient truths about gay behavior that the lobby doesn't want Americans to know the truth about when they are trying to get legislation passed for gay marriage and adoption rights. Promiscuity and risky behaviors go with the territory, they are common and quite universal among gay men.

40 posted on 05/22/2006 10:40:33 AM PDT by PLK
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To: goldstategop

He needs to go back into the closet. He is just disgusting. The parkway and turnpike should monitor the rest stops from perverts like him.


41 posted on 05/22/2006 10:40:50 AM PDT by pandoraou812 ( barbaric with zero tolerance and dilligaf?)
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To: Aquinasfan

Was he getting tips on disguise from double-naught spy Valerie Plame, or what? An anonymous governor?


42 posted on 05/22/2006 10:41:17 AM PDT by RegulatorCountry
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To: prion
" McGreevey, who is now separated from (wife) Dina . . ."

apparently not.

43 posted on 05/22/2006 10:41:36 AM PDT by smonk
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To: LdSentinal

Again McGreevey tries to paint the issue as one of sexual orientation. It isn't. It's about infidelity to a chosen spouse and the corruption of naming, to high-paid positions of public trust, the lover with whom he was cheating. Said lover does HAPPEN to be male, but who really cares?

All of my friends/acquaintances who are gay are furious with McGreevey for seeking to make this an issue of orientation rather than cheating and political corruption.


44 posted on 05/22/2006 10:42:15 AM PDT by pogo101
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To: DM1
If McGreasy REALLY wanted to write a tell-all book, he'd have to write about his bribe-taking, influence peddling and CRIMINAL activities while in office (Machiavelli, anyone?). Instead, he's peddling smut.

Typical Democrat. McGreasy is no victim - the citizens of New Jersey are for his corruption and mismanagement.
45 posted on 05/22/2006 10:42:45 AM PDT by conservative in nyc
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To: LdSentinal
The truth is out.
46 posted on 05/22/2006 10:42:45 AM PDT by PeterFinn (Anything worth fighting for is worth fighting dirty for.)
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To: gidget7

He admits to being a womanizer!!! How many ladies did he expose to the risk of HIV? Now he gets to have a big payday for risking other peoples lives. He should take a long drop with a short rope around his neck!!!! This idiot could have, and may have, caused a chain reaction of pain, misery, and death. People like this really need to be gone from this earth.


47 posted on 05/22/2006 10:43:08 AM PDT by oldenuff2no
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To: LdSentinal
McGreevey speaks about meeting anonymous men at rest stops for sexual trysts.

Thanks for making rest stops so clean and inviting for families, governor.

48 posted on 05/22/2006 10:44:03 AM PDT by BinaryBoy
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To: NotJustAnotherPrettyFace

49 posted on 05/22/2006 10:44:30 AM PDT by Puppage (You may disagree with what I have to say, but I shall defend to your death my right to say it)
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To: oldenuff2no

So he's really not a "gay American" he's just a sleazy man-ho who will do anything that walks, crawls or slithers. Ugh.


50 posted on 05/22/2006 10:45:13 AM PDT by Jaded (does it really need a sarcasm tag?)
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