Posted on 09/01/2006 6:00:41 AM PDT by Mr. Brightside
Womenn: Money more important than looks in a man
By Jennifer Hill Thu Aug 31, 9:44 PM ET
LONDON (Reuters) - Women regard healthy finances as more important than good looks in a man, according to a survey on Friday.
Almost half (45 percent) said a healthy bank balance is more significant than physical attractiveness in a potential partner, according to National Savings & Investments' (NS&I) latest quarterly savings survey.
Just 22 percent of men, however, rate finances above looks in women.
A salary of almost 50,000 pounds a year is demonstrative of male financial success, according to women.
Men need to earn at least 49,247 pounds a year before women consider them successful and wealthy, the study found. And more than one in 10 women would only consider a partner to be successful if they are earning 100,000 pounds or more.
Men were found to have lower expectations, saying they would deem women earning 42,147 pounds to be successful and wealthy.
On the savings front, women expect their men to have an average of 24,281 pounds in savings -- compared to 20,335 pounds in reality -- while men are happy with savings of 15,143 pounds among women, much in line with an actual average of 14,167 pounds.
Dax Harkins, senior savings strategist at NS&I, said: "Finances form a very important part of relationship dynamics and this is reflected in the expectations people have, both in terms of salary and savings levels. Maybe people do believe they can buy happiness after all."
Despite marked differences in expectations, 64 percent of those questioned agree that financial security is important to the success of a relationship.
Kate Maycock, from Relate, said: "Feeling financially insecure will put some strains on a relationship.
"These latest figures bear out that two people are unlikely to exactly agree on what is a healthy nest-egg and what is a financial crisis.
"Accept that you will not change your partner's attitude to money, but that the two of you can come to an agreement on how you will manage your differences and plan your saving."
The research also found that regular savings are on the increase. Average monthly savings were 87.85 pounds in the three months to end-July, up 8 percent on the year.
This savings rate -- equal to 6.8 percent of average income -- is second only to a high of 89.11 pounds recorded in autumn last year.
Around 54 percent of the population put money away each month. They are saving 174.50 pounds a month -- a 10.3 percent increase on this time last year.
Damn! I'm screwed.
Never get between a woman and your money.
Thank God!
My wife and I agree 100% on money. I earn it and she spends it.
< ben stein voice > Wow, there's a shock. < / ben stein voice >
Well, duh.
Crap.
This is not news.
It's been true for ages that "money is the best aphrodisiac."
And if we were to return to a medieval culture, "strength of arms" would be the best aphrodisiac.
That which makes the nest safest is that which attracts women. In our era, and for some time now, that is money.
Any man who is planning on marrying a woman making more $$$ than he is making is in for a very, VERY rude awakening...and it don't matter whether he is successful in his field or not...its "all in the bottom line"...
LOL!!!
OK, thats it. I'll have to move to a third world country.
"Yeah Baby, thats right. I got shoes...TWO PAIR!"
I agree and disagree.
Guys, there is a difference between a guy who actually works and saves a little without being 'cheap'- healthy finances, and a guy who anticipates you being the sugar mama while he plays. Most of us aren't looking for Trump, but we don't want K-Fed either!
Wrong...
THE ALMOST MILLIONAIRE
When Dan found out he was going to inherit a fortune
when his sickly father died, he decided that he needed
a woman to enjoy it with. So one evening he went to a
singles bar where he spotted the most beautiful woman
he had ever seen. Her natural beauty took his breath
away.
"I may look like just an ordinary man," he said as he
walked up to her. "But in just a week or two, my
father will die, and I'll inherit 20 million dollars."
Impressed, the woman went home with him that evening
and, three days later, she became his stepmother.
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