Good for her. So many kids these days are unsupervised and out of control. Where are the parents?
It is guys like the VP that undercut the parent's authority. Schools supply internet access with computers in the libraries and classrooms. Smack the kid for disobeying a direct parental order to stay off the internet and the schools call the cops. Of course, the parent may never know if the kid is on the internet. All a parent can really do is shut down access at home and chain the kid to the house.
We belong to an institution where kids would do this sort of thing regularly. The director's response was, "What can we do?" We actually found that we could report the situation to MySpace and they would take action.
So many people don't understand that it is the adults' job to run the world and the kids' job to be run.
Shalom.