[sportutegrl]

He never mentions if he made the offer. That would be the first thing I would do, if I wanted the baby. If he did and was rejected, then I am wrong. If he is already married, and this baby is the result of an affair, then I have no sympathy for him. If, however, he wants the baby but not the girlfriend as wife and mother, then I would like to suggest some of my mom's advice, updated: Never sleep with any one you wouldn’t marry. (Originally, "Never date . . .)

[nativist]

All this advice about sleeping around is fine and dandy but she wasn't innocent in this. If they were boyfriend and girlfriend, which it says they were, they had probably been sleeping together for a while. Whether its right or wrong the fact is there is an unborn child in this womans womb. She has a man who is willing to be the father of that baby. She could give up custody or she could keep the child and he would pay child support and get visiting rights.

She doesn't care. Its all on her. If I were to try to judge righteously, I would say every bit of this is on her.

I do not know how old you are, but if you think men today are selfish, women are much more.

The truth is that this woman doesn't want the baby interfering with her freedom nor the stigma of giving up her child or having a boyfriend more responsible than her. Solution? Just abort it an no one will know. So she thinks.