I squeeze the lemon wedge *completely* and throw it back in the tea. But, I *do* try to fish the seeds out with my teaspoon.
I drink my diet Cokes with lime and do the same thing with the lime wedge, except I love to suck all the good limey middle out of it first - dipped in sugar, if tablemates don’t care.
Lime and lemon wedges dredged with sugar are exquisite. Why ruin great lemonade or limeade with tea that would stun a horse?