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Church won't hold funeral for gay man
The Dallas Morning News ^ | August 9 2007 | JEFFREY WEISS

Posted on 08/09/2007 9:41:18 PM PDT by texas booster

An Arlington church volunteered to host a funeral Thursday, then reneged on the invitation when it became clear the dead man's homosexuality would be identified in the service.

The event placed High Point Church in the cross hairs of an issue many conservative Christian organizations are discussing: how to take a hard-line theological position on homosexuality while showing compassion toward gay people and their families.

Mr. Sinclair, 46, died Monday. He was a native of Fort Worth, a Navy veteran who served in Desert Storm helping rescuers find downed pilots, and a singer in the Turtle Creek Chorale, said his mother, Eva Bowers. He did not belong to a church.

His brother, Lee, is an employee and member of High Point, a nondenominational mega-congregation led by the Rev. Gary Simons. Mr. Simons is the brother-in-law of Joel Osteen, nationally known pastor of Houston's Lakewood Church.

When Cecil Sinclair became ill with a heart condition six years ago, church members started praying for him out of love for his brother, Mr. Simons said Thursday. And when Mr. Sinclair died of an infection, a side effect of surgery intended to keep him alive long enough for a heart transplant, a member of the church staff was immediately sent to minister to the family, he said.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: Texas
KEYWORDS: highpointchurch; homosexualagenda; homosexuality; megachurch; morals; religion; sin
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To: texas booster

Thanks. I guess I need to be reading the Observer more frequently.


21 posted on 08/09/2007 10:21:09 PM PDT by PAR35
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To: Proud2BAmerican

Once they are dead, do they continue to be homosexual?


22 posted on 08/09/2007 10:22:59 PM PDT by Tall_Texan (Global warming? Hell, in Texas, we just call that "summer".)
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To: texas booster
And then, he said, the family asked to have its own people officiate the service. "We had no control over the format of the memorial," Mr. Simons said.

A Christian service is supposed to be Christian, not pagan. It is unfortunate that, in so many American churches today, funerals are expected to be secular humanist worshiping of men rather than of God.

23 posted on 08/09/2007 10:28:54 PM PDT by iowamark
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To: Proud2BAmerican
I used to recover documents from computers of the dying and the deceased. Most went from strong 25 yo to crippled 27 yo and then to death. I don’t remember anyone over 40 that was presented to me.

It is very sobering to read multiple versions of a LW&T and watch the final document be created. You really see the thought processes of the deceased.

I never withheld any part of a LW&T, even through discussions of undying love to a life partner. Or multiple partners.

However, there were certain docs and pictures that were just too corrupt to recover, IYKWIM.

************ That is what is going on here. The church reached out to an employees family, and was burned by the direction the service went.

A church will donate their facilities for a wedding, but still has the right to restrict the weddings that take place, and the activities at the wedding. If they do not allow dancing, even Daddy-daughter dances, then you will have to find a new hall for the reception.

Now in Great Britian or in Canada ...

24 posted on 08/09/2007 10:30:34 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120) Cure Alzheimer's!)
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To: texas booster

A surprisingly fair story in the Dallas Morning News.


25 posted on 08/09/2007 10:30:58 PM PDT by Montanabound
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To: PAR35
Nah, I just read the Jim Shutze columns about how corrupt Dallas government is. The rest of the Observer is mostly trash.

Especially the ads in the back - women seeking men, men seeking gerbils, etc.

26 posted on 08/09/2007 10:35:41 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120) Cure Alzheimer's!)
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To: Montanabound

That’s what I thought. It is August, and maybe the normal editor is on vacation.


27 posted on 08/09/2007 10:36:52 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120) Cure Alzheimer's!)
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To: iowamark

Funerals for Christians are easy. We know where they are going.

Funerals for perverts are bad. We also know where they are going...

and don’t like that direction one bit.


28 posted on 08/09/2007 10:39:00 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120) Cure Alzheimer's!)
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To: texas booster
Especially the ads in the back

That's where the SBA ran ads when they were recruiting attorneys for the Katrina disaster. You may be missing out on some government jobs.

29 posted on 08/09/2007 10:39:23 PM PDT by PAR35
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To: PAR35
Yecch. No wonder we feel dirty even looking back there.

I mean, a section for Government Seeking Lawyers. Talk about obscene!

Hmmm ... wonder how much money the SBA funneled to leftist lawyers. They exist, even in Dallas.

30 posted on 08/09/2007 10:42:54 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120) Cure Alzheimer's!)
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To: texas booster

Theology and ad hominem attacks aside, the whole issue can be solved with one statement: Their church, their rules. Don’t like a gay-unfriendly church? Simple. Join another church that allows for such behavior. Until then, learn to feel like a second class citizen in a church until you follow their rules fully. Don’t go crying to momma government about how you think you were treated unfairly.


31 posted on 08/09/2007 10:43:18 PM PDT by TypeZoNegative (Trinidad&Tobago: Proof that a Muslim minority (5%pop) causes a majority of a country's problems.)
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To: texas booster

I feel bad for his Mom.


32 posted on 08/09/2007 10:46:17 PM PDT by Saundra Duffy (Romney Rocks!!!)
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To: texas booster
when it became clear the dead man's homosexuality would be identified in the service

that is the problem....the church buries cakers all day long but they don't glorify it anymore than they do philanderers.

33 posted on 08/09/2007 10:48:17 PM PDT by wardaddy (Is it hot today or just me?)
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To: texas booster

I suspect I’ve hijacked this thread far enough.


34 posted on 08/09/2007 10:49:53 PM PDT by PAR35
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To: Saundra Duffy

I feel bad for the parents of any homosexual.

I’ve only known one where the parents did not have issues with it or the homosexuality arose our of some issue that was at least partially attributable to home...but that was a lesbian.

I have 5 kids. I’ve watched coddling mommies with little boys painfully sissies as early as say...18 months of age.

My question is.....did the moms coddle them into this or do the moms coddle kids already sissified?

it’s odd to watch...this is probably where I part with social conservatives who munlike me think homosexuality is always learned.


35 posted on 08/09/2007 10:53:39 PM PDT by wardaddy (Is it hot today or just me?)
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To: PAR35

Hey, I’ve enjoyed it.

Night!


36 posted on 08/09/2007 11:00:34 PM PDT by texas booster (Join FreeRepublic's Folding@Home team (Team # 36120) Cure Alzheimer's!)
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To: texas booster
He did not belong to a church.

Then it shouldn't be an issue. It wasn't important in life is shouldn't be important in death.

37 posted on 08/09/2007 11:07:37 PM PDT by It's me
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To: texas booster
Mr. Sinclair, 46, died Monday. He was a native of Fort Worth, a Navy veteran who served in Desert Storm helping rescuers find downed pilots, and a singer in the Turtle Creek Chorale, said his mother, Eva Bowers. He did not belong to a church.

That's all anyone should need to know. This church has no obligation to this man.

38 posted on 08/09/2007 11:57:47 PM PDT by DoughtyOne
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To: texas booster

I don’t know this denomination.

So all I can say is this person’s soul is in God’s hand.

Give him normal burial service?

Plasticanation is our choice.
Now I lay myself down to sleep, my soul the Lord to keep.

Simple.


39 posted on 08/10/2007 12:13:14 AM PDT by Global2010 ( I feel the Earth Move under my feet. Carol King)
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To: VeniVidiVici

LOL Me too she loved every man that she never dared to touch one.

Not exactly the mission I spent my heart and soul on to be spoke at the Eulogy.


40 posted on 08/10/2007 12:15:47 AM PDT by Global2010 ( I feel the Earth Move under my feet. Carol King)
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