It is very sobering to read multiple versions of a LW&T and watch the final document be created. You really see the thought processes of the deceased.
I never withheld any part of a LW&T, even through discussions of undying love to a life partner. Or multiple partners.
However, there were certain docs and pictures that were just too corrupt to recover, IYKWIM.
************ That is what is going on here. The church reached out to an employees family, and was burned by the direction the service went.
A church will donate their facilities for a wedding, but still has the right to restrict the weddings that take place, and the activities at the wedding. If they do not allow dancing, even Daddy-daughter dances, then you will have to find a new hall for the reception.
Now in Great Britian or in Canada ...