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Tough, Sad and Smart (Bill Cosby and Harvard’s Dr. Alvin Poussaint on Black self-destruction)
New York Times ^ | 16 October 2007 | Bob Herbert

Posted on 10/16/2007 7:45:19 AM PDT by shrinkermd

They are a longtime odd couple, Bill Cosby and Harvard’s Dr. Alvin Poussaint, and their latest campaign is nothing less than an effort to save the soul of black America...

...There is a sense of deep sadness and loss — grief — evident in both men over the tragedy that has befallen so many blacks in America. They were on “Meet the Press” for the entire hour Sunday, talking about their new book, a cri de coeur against the forces of self-sabotage titled, “Come On, People: On the Path From Victims to Victors.”

There weren’t many laughs over the course of the hour. Speaking about the epidemic of fatherlessness in black families, Mr. Cosby imagined a young fatherless child thinking: “Somewhere in my life a person called my father has not shown up, and I feel very sad about this because I don’t know if I’m ugly — I don’t know what the reason is.”

Dr. Poussaint, referring to boys who get into trouble, added: “I think a lot of these males kind of have a father hunger and actually grieve that they don’t have a father. And I think later a lot of that turns into anger. ‘Why aren’t you with me? Why don’t you care about me?’ ”

The absence of fathers, and the resultant feelings of abandonment felt by boys and girls, inevitably affect the children’s sense of self-worth, he said.

It’s a tough book. Victimhood is cast as the enemy. Defeat, failure and hopelessness are not to be tolerated.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: africanamerican; billcosby; destruction; self
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To: shrinkermd

If anyone watched the Meet the Press interview, I believe the first thing Cosby blamed was “massive institutionalized and systemic” racism. Another couple of talking heads following the ‘blame racism first’ script. Kind of dilutes their subsequent arguments.


21 posted on 10/16/2007 8:50:03 AM PDT by steel_resolve (Think pitch forks.)
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To: Roses0508
She was born and raised in Tennessee and spoke some kind of street gibberish that no one could follow.

She probably got her degree from TSU. As a corporate manager in TN, I received lots of resumes from both TSU and Fisk grads (both black colleges). The TSU grads were all at least cum laude, but their resumes displayed the writing skills of what I would consider an 8th grader. I'm sure that is not true of all TSU students, but was my overwhelming experience. On the other hand, those from Fisk went to the top of the pile. They had been taught well, and they had the attitude that success in life depended on hard work. Fisk grads made great employees. My impression of TSU grads was "i got my degree, now where's my paycheck?". The shame of it was that they seemed to have all been taught that they were owed something, rather than having the opportunity to earn something.

22 posted on 10/16/2007 8:58:19 AM PDT by jdub
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To: 2banana
Much of what you say is true. The Founders would not recognize the behemoth that the Federal government has become.

How then do we fix the problem? Merely electing new legislators of either party will not accomplish the goal. Those interested in elective office, be they Republicans or Democrats, by and large believe in government. They believe it is beneficial rather than pernicious. They also revel in power. Kissinger was right when he called power the the ultimate aphrodisiac. The power of Congress arises in part from its ability to tax and spend, and it will not give up that power willingly.

The solution therefore lies in the Constitution or rather an amendment to the Constitution to accomplish several things: to impose term limits on Congressmen, to require that every Federal law be reauthorized or deemed repealed every ten years, to require a balanced budget, to prohibit any payment to a Congressman or any employee of a Congressmen on account of past service, and to require that every law passed by Congress apply to it as well as the citizenry.

Such an amendment would return us to a world of citizen politicians who would of necessity view legislation critically with a view to its utility and efficiency. Gone would be the preening permanent political plutocrats that we have today. Service in Congress would once again be a service rather than a sinecure.

Congress has usurped its power. Only we can take it back.

23 posted on 10/16/2007 9:02:17 AM PDT by p. henry
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To: Roses0508

She was born and raised in Tennessee and spoke some kind of street gibberish that no one could follow. She had been counseled about the language issue, but didn’t see any need to change as she considered it her right, her “black heritage”. She was angry, non-productive, disruptive and had an enormous sense of entitlement. Her career did not thrive and she was eventually terminated.

Cuz talkin like whitey makes you a sellout to the race.


24 posted on 10/16/2007 10:08:58 AM PDT by Sig Sauer P220
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To: 2banana
thank you 2b, you stated very well what so many people [especially FReepers]understand. Tyranny is/has been knocking for many years.

I fear that the tyrants have learned not to stir up all the hornets at once, and will continue to slowly advance their death grip.

I often feel guilty about the level of charity I can realistically give, maybe some day I will be blessed with the ability to help give freedom to the next generation...

25 posted on 10/16/2007 12:52:35 PM PDT by Gilbo_3 (A few Rams must look after the sheep 'til the Good Shepherd returns...)
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To: shrinkermd
cri de coeur

I've seen that term in print several times over the past week. Must be the new gravitas.

26 posted on 10/16/2007 12:58:12 PM PDT by Crawdad (I cried because I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no class.)
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To: FormerACLUmember
Dr. Bill Cosby and Harvard’s Dr. Alvin Poussaint sound like every Republican on this subject, whether or not they realize it.

They were on Larry King last night, and I caught a little bit while channel surfing and I would agree with your assessment. Cosby was going after what he called "victim mongers" - people who were making money off of the victimization of certain groups.

When he started going off on victim mongers", my first thought was Al Sharpton and Jessie Jackson.

He also made a helluva point about how some people get really pissed off when a certain group's dirty laundry is aired, as if they want to keep the dirty laundry hidden. He said something to the effect that if you have dirty laundry, you don't hide it, you get it out there and get it clean - I think he was speaking about some of the "black leaders" (take your pick) who have criticized him for what he has said.

Very intelligent man, but I have a feeling this will be ignored by the MSM as it makes a lot of people uncomfortable to hear the truth (at least in my opinion).
27 posted on 10/19/2007 7:18:13 AM PDT by af_vet_rr
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