Are you the author of this article?
I’ve got mixed feelings on this one. A lot of foreign brides are victims of violence at the hands of men who can’t find a woman any other way. On the other hand lots of men are victimized by these women. (Seems that there should be a moral here)
I make sure that any woman I become involved in has access to my criminal history early on in the relationship. I myself am involved with a Serbian woman and I’ve released all my records for her to look at if she wishes. I’m not too worried about her taking everything I have since she’s already lived in this country for a decade and earns several times what I make anyway. She’s not trying to marry me for citizenship because she’s paying for all that herself.
Another story where the system is stacked against the man. As
a foreigner he had even less access to her history to get an idea of what kind of person she was. It looks like she was a grifter assisted by her family and schooled in the ways of the system.
What I see here is a matter of women vs men more than illegal vs legal. Face it, there’s not much this woman was able to accomplish that any wife couldn’t.
If you’re a man, you’re going to have to realize that you are the beast and hunting season is open.
Our laws have made it as simple as ordering up pizza for woment to get men kicked out of the house, obtain a restraining order within hours, and absolutely destroy him over the next few short weeks.
I realize there are men out there who abuse women, and I do not approve of that in any way shape or form. The fact still remains, that a guy cannot call the police on a whim and get his wife removed from the home and obtain a restraining order to keep her from returning, or even coming within 500 feet of him or the home, or the children.
Women can. And they do.
Might want to avoid marrying foreign women and then trying to get them legally into the country.
Bookmark for later read. Gotta’ run.
>>I am no longer employable in my field due to my “criminal” history — 5th degree domestic assault with no conviction.<<
I’m surprised that arrests with no convictions show up on an employer’s search.
And people wonder why some men go off the deep end.
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What do you want to bet she was a “mail order” bride. That’s what he gets.
I always hate storys that claim the person being “screwed” is perfect. No way that this is the whole story. There normally isn’t a clear saint or sinner. Need more information before I can pass judgment. Plus throwing the four years of service in the story is crap. Many people do four years of military service and that does not make you perfect.