Hildy the authority on families. What were you 40 when you finally got married Hildy?
But here comes the personal attacks...I'm surprised it took this long. People always get angry when you hold a mirror up to them. BTW, I don't want to get into a personal fight with you. We all have our personal experiences to draw on. All I'm saying is that I know that what I do works...and I'm happy, I know alot of unhappy people and the common thread amongst them is that they don't realize the only thing they have control over is their own behavior and their own choices. And there's nothing wrong with doing something just because it will make someone else happy. You couldn't POSSIBLY disagree with that, right?