well, that’s terrific! So I guess you just felt the need to chime in to insult me...ok then.
As I said before, marrying late in life and not having children does not exactly make your opinions worth much to those who have been married awhile and have raised children. We’ve experienced growing older together and hurdling the situations that raising children bring up.
You asked me if I was happy, as if where I am now isn’t good enough.....as if I’m not good enough as I am.
From my perspective this is the best point in my life..... there are no (OK, a few...a day here, a week there) points in time that I long for, no good ole days that I would want to relive or return to...
There are a few people who’ve passed on that I miss, first husband, grandparents....but....the person I was as recently as 5 years ago I never want to see again.
Not everyone is happy following the same path or doing the same things. Your heaven would be someone else’s hell. That is what we’ve been trying to say.