[PennsylvaniaMom]

To thy own self be true is destroying the family? I don't think so. All I stated was if you change yourself for someone's else pleasure or what you perceive the other wants, well...its not healthy. Angcat said she starved and exercised for herself you added she should 'do that for her husband.' Thats where I chimed in. Again, we disagree...I think you make yourself the best you can be for you and that that sense of happiness and self fulfillment makes you a better person for those around you.

[SeaHawkFan]

I think you have misconstrued Hildy’s point.